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People Feel Like If They Don't Have A Voice Or A Name Or The Spotlight, Then They're Invisible. But If You Can't Wake Up In Your World, In Your Life, With Your Family And Your Friends, And Enjoy It, Then Forget It. All Bets Are Off, Because That's All Anybody Is Guaranteed.

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Sandra Bernhard

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People Feel Like If They Don't Have A Voice Or A Name Or The Spotlight, Then They're Invisible. But If You Can't Wake Up In Your World, In Your Life, With Your Family And Your Friends, And Enjoy It, Then Forget It. All Bets Are Off, Because That's All Anybody Is Guaranteed.

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