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Whether We Like It Or Not, Each Of Us Is Constrained By Limits On What We Can Do And Feel. To Ignore These Limits Leads To Denial And Eventually To Failure. To Achieve Excellence, We Must First Understand The Reality Of The Everyday, With All Its Demands

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Whether We Like It Or Not, Each Of Us Is Constrained By Limits On What We Can Do And Feel. To Ignore These Limits Leads To Denial And Eventually To Failure. To Achieve Excellence, We Must First Understand The Reality Of The Everyday, With All Its Demands

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It Is How We Choose What We Do, And How We Approach It, That Will Determine Whether The Sum Of Our Days Adds Up To A Formless Blur, Or To Something Resembling A Work Of Art.

We Have All Experienced Times When, Instead Of Being Buffeted By Anonymous Forces, We Do Feel In Control Of Our Actions, Masters Of Our Own Fate. On The Rare Occasions That It Happens, We Feel A Sense Of Exhilaration, A Deep Sense Of Enjoyment That Is Long Cherished And That Becomes A Landmark In Memory For What Life Should Be Like.. Moments Like These Are Not The Passive, Receptive, Relaxing Timesthe Best Moments Usually Occur When A Person’s Body Or Mind Is Stretched To Its Limits In A Voluntary Effort To Accomplish Something Difficult And Worthwhile.

Act As If The Future Of The Universe Depends On What You Do, While Laughing At Yourself For Thinking That Your Actions Make Any Difference.

Without Respect, The Subtle Alchemy That Binds An Organization Or That Serves As The Impetus For A Business Transaction Would Dissolve Into Mutual Suspicion And Hostility.

A Paycheck Is A Sufficient Impetus To Motivate Some Employees To Do The Minimum Amount To Get By, And For Others, The Challenge Of Getting Ahead In The Organization Provides A Satisfactory Focus For A While. But These Incentives Alone Are Rarely Strong Enough To Inspire Workers To Give Their Best To Their Work. For This A Vision Is Needed, An Overarching Goal That Gives Meaning To The Job, So That An Individual Can Forget Himself In The Task And Experience Flow Without Doubts Or Regrets. The Most Important Component Of Such A Vision Is An Ingredient We Call Soul.

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Quality Of Life

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When A Religion Or Ideology Becomes Dominant, The Lack Of Controls Will Result In Widening Spirals Of License Leading To Degradation And Corruption.

We Can Either Help To Make This World A More Incredible Place Than It Has Ever Been, Or We Can Hasten Its Return To Inorganic Dust.

But To Change All Existence Into A Flow Experience, It Is Not Sufficient To Learn Merely How To Control Moment-by-moment States Of Consciousness. It Is Also Necessary To Have An Overall Context Of Goals For The Events Of Everyday Life To Make Senseto Create Harmony In Whatever One Does Is The Last Task That The Flow Theory Presents To Whose Who Wish To Attain Optimal Experience; It Is A Task That Involves Transforming The Entirety Of Life Into A Single Flow Activity, With Unified Goals That Provide Constant Purpose.

When People Restrain Themselves Out Of Fear, Their Lives Are By Necessity Diminished. They Become Rigid And Defensive, And Their Self Stops Growing.

Whatever The Composition Of A Firm, If It Is To Do Good Business It Should Be A Place Where Everyone Is Encouraged To Progress Toward Complexity- Or At The Very Least A Place That Does Not Make It More Difficult To Achieve Personal Growth.

Pleasure Is An Important Component Of The Quality Of Life, But By Itself It Does Not Bring Happiness. Pleasure Helps To Maintain Order, But By Itself Cannot Create A New Order In Consciousness.

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It Is Essential To Learn To Enjoy Life. It Really Does Not Make Sense To Go Through The Motions Of Existence If One Does Not Appreciate As Much Of It As Possible.

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It Is When We Act Freely, For The Sake Of The Action Itself Rather Than For Ulterior Motives, That We Learn To Become More Than What We Were. When We Choose A Goal And Invest Ourselves In It To The Limits Of Concentration, Whatever We Do Will Be Enjoyable. And Once We Have Tasted This Joy, We Will Redouble Our Efforts To Taste It Again. This Is The Way The Self Grows.

It Is Better To Look Suffering Straight In The Eye, Acknowledge And Respect It’s Presence, And Then Get Busy As Soon As Possible Focusing On Things We Choose To Focus On.

Write Down Each Day What Surprised You And How You Surprised Others. When Something Strikes A Spark Of Interest, Follow It.

We Can Transform Reality To The Extent That We Influence What Happens In Consciousness And Thus Free Ourselves From The Threats And Blandishments Of The Outside World.

I Have A Naive Trust In The Universe - That At Some Level It All Makes Sense, And We Can Get Glimpses Of That Sense If We Try.

It Is Amazing How Little Effort Most People Make To Improve Control Of Their Attention. If Reading A Book Seems Too Difficult, Instead Of Sharpening Concentration We Tend To Set It Aside And Instead Turn On The Television, Which Not Only Requires Minimal Attention, But In Fact Tends To Diffuse What Little It Commands With Choppy Editing, Commercial Interruptions, And Generally Inane Content.

Those Periods Of Struggling To Overcome Challenges Are What People Find To Be The Most Enjoyable Times.

Happiness Is A Condition That Must Be Prepared For, Cultivated , And Defended Privately By Each Person.

You Yourself Are In An Ecstatic State To Such A Point That You Feel As Though You Almost Don't Exist. I've Experienced This Time And Again. My Hand Seems Devoid Of Myself, And I Have Nothing To Do With What Is Happening. I Just Sit There Watching In A State Of Awe And Wonderment. And It Just Flows Out By Itself.

If We Are So Rich, Why Aren't We Happy?

It Does Not Seem To Be True That Work Necessarily Needs To Be Unpleasant. It May Always Have To Be Hard, Or At Least Harder Than Doing Nothing At All. But There Is Ample Evidence That Work Can Be Enjoyable, And That Indeed, It Is Often The Most Enjoyable Part Of Life.

The Most Important Step In Emancipating Oneself From Social Controls Is The Ability To Find Rewards In The Events Of Each Moment.

Whether We Like It Or Not, Each Of Us Is Constrained By Limits On What We Can Do And Feel. To Ignore These Limits Leads To Denial And Eventually To Failure. To Achieve Excellence, We Must First Understand The Reality Of The Everyday, With All Its Demands

When Each Of These Three Elements Of Vision-concern For Excellence, For People And For The Wider Environment-are Present, Business Is Transformed From A Tool For Making Profits Into A Creative, Humane Experiment For Improving Life.

...in The Words Of Max Depree: "management Has A Lot To Do With Answers. But Leadership Is A Function Of Questions. And The First Question For A Leader Always Is: 'who Do We Intend To Be?' Not 'what Are We Going To Do?' But 'who Do We Intend To Be?'"

The Germ Of An Idea Doesn't Make The Sculpture That Stands Up... So The Next Stage Is Hard Work

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