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When You're A Weird Geek, The Way To Sell Yourself Is To Show Your Skills.
-Temple Grandin
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When You're A Weird Geek, The Way To Sell Yourself Is To Show Your Skills.

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Kids
College
I Feel Very Strongly, We've Got To Give Animals A Good Life. I've Worked Really Hard Improving Slaughter Plants And Animal Handling And Transport. And People Have Said To Me, Why Don't You Work On Improving Conditions On Pig Farms? And Basically, To Be Effective On Making Real Change Out There On The Ground, You Can Only Work On So Many Things. You Know, You Get Too Distributed, You're Not Effective.
Good Life
Real
Animal
I Know A Lot Of Animal Communicators And I Think A Lot Of Them Are Just Good Behaviorists Because They Pick Up On A Lot Little Posture Things Like How The Eyes Look, The Posture Of The Cat Ears, Is It Tense? They're Picking Up Just A Lot Of Their Body Cues From The Dog, The Cat Or The Horse.
Dog
Horse
Cat
I Think That The Definition Of Autism Is Too Broad. You Got To Remember, Autism Definition Is A Behavioral Profiling.
Thinking
Autism
Definitions
You Got To Get Away From Words If You Want To Understand Any Animal. It Thinks In Pictures, It Thinks In Smells, It Thinks In Touch Sensations - Little Sound Bites Like, It's A Very Detailed Memory.
Memories
Animal
Thinking
I Have Been On The Same Dose Of Anti-depressants For 15 Years, And My Nerves Still Go Up And Down In Cycles; But My Nerves Are Cycling At A Lower Level Than They Were Before.
Cycling
Years
Nerves
If You Have Autism In The Family History, You Still Vaccinate. Delay It A Bit, Space Them Out.
Space
Autism
Delay
People On The Autism Spectrum Don't Think The Same Way You Do. In My Life, People Who Made A Difference Were Those Who Didn't See Labels, Who Believed In Building On What Was There. These Were People Who Didn't Try To Drag Me Into Their World, But Came Into Mine Instead.
Thinking
Differences
People
One Of The Ways To Reduce That Barking Would Be To Have Volunteers Come In Especially For Hte For The Dogs And Take Each Dog Out For 45 Minutes Each Day And Spend Quality Time With The Person - That Would Help Reduce The Stress And In Fact, One Of My Students Did A Study On That.
Dog
Stress
Volunteer
I've Got A Lot Of Other People Who Do A Lot Of Things For Me, So I've Gotten To A Part In My Career Where I'm Doing A Lot Of Talks Because I Want To Get Kids Turned On. I Want To See These Kids, These Geeky Nerdy Kids, Go Out There And Do Something.
Kids
Careers
People
I Am Much Less Autistic Now, Compared To When I Was Young. I Remember Some Behaviors Like Picking Carpet Fuzz And Watching Spinning Plates For Hours. I Didn't Want To Be Touched. I Couldn't Shut Out Background Noise. I Didn't Talk Until I Was About 4 Years Old. I Screamed. I Hummed. But As I Grew Up, I Improved.
Years
Spinning Plates
Background Noise
Curiosity Is The Other Side Of Caution.
Curiosity
Sides
Caution
My Mother Was Always Expanding My Art Skills And Getting Me To Paint Different Things. You Always Got To Push Some. And, I Mean, I Learned Basic Things Like Getting Up On Time, How To Shop - You Know, You Don't Touch Things In A Store You're Not Going To Buy. These Things Were Taught Very Young. I Don't See Today Enough Of This Basic, You Know, Basic Skill Teaching.
Mother
Art
Teaching
We Found If You Took The Dog Out For 45 Minutes A Day And Worked With It That The Solitary Stress Hormone, Cortisol, Went Down. But Then It Went Right Back Up Again Because They Didn't Keep Doing It.
Dog
Stress
Minutes
Normal People Have An Incredible Lack Of Empathy. They Have Good Emotional Empathy, But They Don't Have Much Empathy For The Autistic Kid Who Is Screaming At The Baseball Game Because He Can't Stand The Sensory Overload. Or The Autistic Kid Having A Meltdown In The School Cafeteria Because There's Too Much Stimulation.
Baseball
Children
School
The Reason Why Feral Kitties Are Hard To Tame Is Because They Have Missed Socialization The Period - You Need To Be Touching And Petting Those Kittens When They Are Real Young.
Real
Touching
Reason Why
Animals Are Like Autistic Savants. In Fact, I'd Go So Far As To Say That Animals Might Actually Be Autistic Savants. Animals Have Special Talents Normal People Don't, The Same Way Autistic People Have Special Talents Normal People Don't; And At Least Some Animals Have Special Forms Of Genius Normal People Don't, The Same Way Some Autistic Savants Have Special Forms Of Genius. I Think Most Of The Time Animal Genius Probably Happens For The Same Reason Autistic Genius Does: A Difference In The Brain Autistic People Share With Animals.
Animal
Thinking
Differences
I Played Around With Vegetarianism Back In The '70s. One Thing, My Physiology Just Got To Have Animal Protein. I Get Hypoglycemic, I Get All Light-headed Unless I Eat Animal Protein.
Animal
Light
Vegetarianism
I Think There's Some Kids That Need To Go From Being A Child To Being A Grown-up. You Get Out In The Tech Communities, The Parents Just Apprentice Their Kid Into The Industry And They Just Skip Being A Teenager.
Children
Teenager
Kids
People Can Live Up To High Standards, But They Can't Live Up To Perfection.
People
Perfection
High Standards
The Big Companies Are Like Steel And Activists Are Like Heat. Activists Soften The Steel, And Then I Can Bend It Into Pretty Grillwork And Make Reforms.
Reform
Steel
Heat
We Owe Them [animals] A Decent Life And A Decent Death, And Their Lives Should Be As Low-stress As Possible. That's My Job. I Wish Animals Could Have More Than Just A Low-stress Life And A Quick, Painless Death. I Wish Animals Could Have A Good Life, Too, With Something Useful To Do. People Were Animals, Too, Once, And When We Turned Into Human Beings We Gave Something Up. Being Close To Animals Brings Some Of It Back.
Jobs
Good Life
Stress
I Don't Define Myself As Autistic First. I Don't Want To Be A Professional Autistic. I Think It's Important To Have A Real Job.
Jobs
Real
Thinking
You Have To Get Autistic Kids Out And Expose Them To Things, But Do This Without Any Surprises, So They Know What To Expect. You Have To Find Skilled Mentors To Teach Them Things. For Me, It Was An Aunt, And It Was My Science Teacher. You Need To Find The Things They're Interested In And Good At And Expand On This.
Teacher
Kids
Aunt
I'm Seeing Too Many Geeky, Nerdy Kids Get Addicted To Video Games And They're Going Nowhere. It's Making Me Crazy.
Crazy
Kids
Games
Well The Dog That Is The Most Is The A Labrador Retrievers Because They Tolerate Kids Tugging On Them And Things Better Than Other Dogs. They Are A Real Good Natured. They’re Also Real Calm And Sometimes When Working With Autistic Children That’s Probably More Popular Dog Breed - Now There Are Different Ways To Use Service Animals.
Dog
Children
Real
I Am A Big Believer In Early Intervention.
Bigs
Believer
Intervention
One Of The Places Where Research Is Needed Is All The Sensory Problems. And You Get Sensory Problems Not Just With Autism, But With Dyslexia, Learning Problems, Adhd, Attention Deficit, You Know, Things Like Sound Sensitivity, Problems With Fluorescent Lighting.
Autism
Sound
Attention
I Had People In My Life Who Didn't Give Up On Me: My Mother, My Aunt, My Science Teacher. I Had One-on-one Speech Therapy. I Had A Nanny Who Spent All Day Playing Turn-taking Games With Me.
Mother
Teacher
Giving Up
Different Cats Don't Like Certain Litter. They Also Don't Like An Unstable Floor, No Animal Like's Unstable Floor. So If You Put A Thin Piece Of Plastic Down Under A Litter Box And The Cat Walks On It And Starts To Slip, They Don't Like That. Any Animal Doesn't Like An Unstable Floor.
Cat
Animal
Different
Giving Those Animals [in Shelter] Quality Time - Now, I Have Been In Some Of The Shelters Where The Cats Have Been In Group Housing. Well If You Have A Cat That Never Gets Out Of Sternal Recumbency, Now What That Means Is That [inaudible] - That's A Stressed Cat. If They Lay On Their Side, Then They Are Not Stressed Out.
Mean
Cat
Animal
I Use My Mind To Solve Problems And Invent Things.
Mind
Excellence
Use
When I Was Younger, I Didn't Even Realize The Way I Think Visually Is Different.
Thinking
Different
Way
I Think That Autistic Brains Tend To Be Specialized Brains. Autistic People Tend To Be Less Social. It Takes A Ton Of Processor Space In The Brain To Have All The Social Circuits. I Mean After All, The First Stone Spear Was Not Designed By The Totally Social People.
Mean
Thinking
Space
I Think Using Animals For Food Is An Ethical Thing To Do, But We've Got To Do It Right. We've Got To Give Those Animals A Decent Life, And We've Got To Give Them A Painless Death. We Owe The Animal Respect.
Animal
Thinking
Giving
I'm Seeing Too Many Kind Of Socially Awkward Kids That Get Through Schools And Then They Can't Hold A Job Because They Haven't Learned The Discipline Of Get Up In The Morning.
Morning
Jobs
School
I Want Get People To Think About Sensory Based Of Thinking.
Thinking
People
Want
Language For Me Narrates The Pictures In My Mind. When I Work On Designing Livestock Equipment I Can Test Run That Equipment In My Head Like 3-d Virtual Reality. In Fact, When I Was In College I Used To Think That Everybody Was Able To Do That.
Running
Reality
College
Sometimes You Have To Go Outside Your Field Of Study To Find The Right People.
People
Fields
Study
Lets Get Into Talking About How Autism Is Similar Animal Behavior. The Thing Is I Dont Think In A Language, And Animals Dont Think In A Language. Its Sensory Based Thinking, Thinking In Pictures, Thinking In Smells, Thinking In Touches. Its Putting These Sensory Based Memories Into Categories.
Memories
Thinking
Animal
My Grandfather Was An Engineer Who Invented The Automatic Pilot For Airplanes.
Airplane
Grandfather
Pilots
People Need To Learn How To Work, Learn How To Support Themselves. I Think It's Just Fine To Be Eccentric.
Thinking
People
Support
I'm A Big Believer In Getting Kids Involved In Things Where There's A Shared Interest Because That's Where They Can Have Friends.
Kids
Bigs
Interest
If I Could Snap My Fingers And Be Nonautistic, I Would Not. Autism Is Part Of What I Am.
Inspiring
Autism
Fingers
I Get Asked A Lot Why Cats Mess Outside The Litter Box. The Simplest Thing Is If You Have More Than One Cat And You Have Two Litter Boxes, Don't Put Them Right Next To Each Other.
Cat
Two
Next
If You See A Child With Autistic-like Behaviors At Age Two And Three, The Worst Thing You Can Do Is Just Let Them Sit And Watch Tv All Day. That's Just The Worst Thing You Can Do. You Need To Have A Teacher Working With That Child, Working On Teaching Language, Working On Social Interaction, Working On Getting Them Interested In Different Things, And Keeping Their Brain Connected To The World.
Teacher
Children
Teaching
A Real Common Problem With A Lot Of Animals Is That Guys Are Bad, Hate To Say It, But They Will Tune Into Some Big Feature Like The Glasses, Maybe The Beard, Baseball Hats, You Know Some Unique Feature Like That. And They'll Generalize Like, "okay! All People With Baseball Hats Or Black Rimmed Glasses Are Bad."
Baseball
Hate
Real
I Feel Very Strongly That If You Got Rid Of All Of The Autistic Genetics You're Not Going To Have Any Scientists. There'd Be No Computer People. You'd Lose A Lot Of Artists And Musicians. There'd Be A Horrible Price To Pay.
Artist
People
Musician
Research Is Starting To Show That A Child Should Be Engaged At Least 20 Hours A Week. I Do Not Think It Matters Which Program You Choose As Long As It Keeps The Child Actively Engaged With The Therapist, Teacher, Or Parent For At Least 20 Hours A Week.
Teacher
Children
Thinking
The Squeeze Machine Is Not Going To Cure Anybody, But It May Help Them Relax; And A Relaxed Person Will Usually Have Better Behavior.
Relax
Machines
May
People Talk About Curing Autism. But If You Got Rid Of All Those Traits, Who's Going To Make The Next Computer?
People
Autism
Next
I Believe That The Best Way To Create Good Living Conditions For Any Animal, Whether It's A Captive Animal Living In A Zoo, A Farm Animal Or A Pet, Is To Base Animal Welfare Programs On The Core Emotion Systems In The Brain. My Theory Is That The Environment Animals Live In Should Activate Their Positive Emotions As Much As Possible, And Not Activate Their Negative Emotions Any More Than Necessary. If We Get The Animal's Emotions Rights, We Will Have Fewer Problem Behaviors... All Animals And People Have The Same Core Emotion Systems In The Brain.
Zoos
Believe
Animal
It Is Never Too Late To Expand The Mind Of A Person On The Autism Spectrum.
Autism
Mind
Too Late
If You Start Using A Medication In A Person With Autism, You Should See An Obvious Improvement In Behavior In A Short Period Of Time. If You Do Not See An Obvious Improvement, They Probably Should Not Be Taking The Stuff. It Is That Simple.
Simple
Autism
Stuff
Some Autistic Children Cannot Stand The Sound Of Certain Voices. I Have Come Across Cases Where Teachers Tell Me That Certain Children Have Problems With Their Voice Or Another Person's Voice. This Problem Tends To Be Related To High-pitched Ladies' Voices.
Teacher
Children
Voice
As You May Know, Some Of The Stereotyped Behaviors Exhibited By Autistic Children Are Also Found In Zoo Animals Who Are Raised In A Barren Environment.
Zoos
Children
Animal
Pressure Is Calming To The Nervous System.
Pressure
Calming
Nervous
In An Ideal World The Scientist Should Find A Method To Prevent The Most Severe Forms Of Autism But Allow The Milder Forms To Survive. After All, The Really Social People Did Not Invent The First Stone Spear. It Was Probably Invented By An Aspie Who Chipped Away At Rocks While The Other People Socialized Around The Campfire. Without Autism Traits We Might Still Be Living In Caves.
Rocks
People
Autism
Fear Was My Main Emotion Until I Started Taking Anti-depressant Medication. And I Was One Of The People Where, As I Got Older, The Fear Got Worse And Worse. So I Can Really Relate To An Animal Getting, You Know, Scared And Traumatized.
Animal
People
Emotion
One Area Of Study That Still Needs To Be Done Is The Kind Of Autism Where Kids Have Speech And They Lose It. Some Parents Say It's Happened Right After Vaccines. That Group Needs To Be Studied Separately From Others.
Kids
Vaccines
Autism
A Cat Can Be Social, But A Dog, We've Bred This Hyper Social Animal That's Really Truly Different And Will Do Stuff For Us Just To Please Us With Praise And Stroking.
Dog
Cat
Animal
A Treatment Method Or An Educational Method That Will Work For One Child May Not Work For Another Child. The One Common Denominator For All Of The Young Children Is That Early Intervention Does Work, And It Seems To Improve The Prognosis.
Children
Educational
Doe
Autism Is An Extremely Variable Disorder.
Autism
Variables
Disorder
I Am Also A Believer In An Integrated Treatment Approach To Autism.
Autism
Treatment
Integrated
What I've Tried To Do Is Combine Both My Personal Experiences With Scientific Research. I Like To Cross The Divide Between The Personal World And The Scientific World.
Research
World
Crosses
I Feel Very Strongly That We Need To Give Beef Cattle A Really Good Life. When They Go To Slaughter, It Needs To Be Painless.
Good Life
Giving
Beef
What Would Happen If The Autism Gene Was Eliminated From The Gene Pool? You Would Have A Bunch Of People Standing Around In A Cave, Chatting And Socializing And Not Getting Anything Done.
People
Autism
Caves
All Animals And People Have The Same Core Emotion Systems In The Brain.
Animal
People
Brain
I Am Different, Not Less
Inspiring
Autism
Different
I Think A Brain Can Be Made "more Thinking" Or Made "more Emotional." At What Point Does This Become Abnormal? Autism In Its Milder Variants, I Think, Is Part Of Normal Human Variation.
Thinking
Emotional
Autism
Children Between The Ages Of Five To Ten Years Are Even More Variable. They Are Going To Vary From Very High Functioning, Capable Of Doing Normal School Work, To Nonverbal Who Have All Kinds Of Neurological Problems.
Children
School
Years
Autism Is A Big Continuum, Going From Someone Who Remains Nonverbal, All The Way Up To Geniuses On Silicon Valley. And Some Kids Are Visual Thinkers Like Me. Other Kids Are Pattern Thinkers - Your Mathematicians, Your Programmers. And There Are Others, They Are Word Thinkers. Uneven Skills. You Need To Take The Thing That They're Good At And You Need To Work On Developing It.
Kids
Skills
Autism
The Thing About Being Autistic Is That You Gradually Get Less And Less Autistic, Because You Keep Learning, You Keep Learning How To Behave. It's Like Being In A Play; I'm Always In A Play.
Play
Autistic
Keep Learning
When You Take A Drug To Treat High Blood Pressure Or Diabetes, You Have An Objective Test To Measure Blood Pressure And The Amount Of Sugar In The Blood. It Is Straight-forward. With Autism, You Are Looking For Changes In Behavior.
Blood
Autism
Drug
I'm A Child Of The 50s. I Was Expected To Have Table Manners. There Needs To Be Some Expectations For Behavior. I'm Seeing Some Children Today, They Don't Push Them Enough.
Children
Expectations
Needs
Some Teachers Just Have A Knack For Working With Autistic Children. Other Teachers Do Not Have It.
Teacher
Children
Knack
It [cats Going Outside The Litter Box] Might Have Something To Do With - You Know, I Am Just Thinking That If I Am The Cat, When I'm Pooping, You Know, I've Got To Strain A Little Bit More And Maybe That Affects How The Kitty Litter Feels On My Paws. I'd Try A Different Sub Straight, Or Something Like That - Make Sure It's Not Slippery.
Cat
Thinking
Trying
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