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No One Can Become Fully Aware Of The Very Essence Of Another Human Being Until He Loves Him. By His Love He Is Enabled To See The Essential Traits And Features In The Beloved Person; And Even More, He Sees That Which Is Potential In Him, Which Is Not Yet Actualized. Furthermore, By His Love, The Loving Person Enables The Beloved Person To Actualize These Potentialities. By Making Him Aware Of What He Can Be And What He Should Become, He Makes These Potentialities Come True.
-Viktor E. Frankl
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No One Can Become

Viktor E. Frankl
No One Can Become Fully Aware Of The Very Essence Of Another Human Being Until He Loves Him. By His Love He Is Enabled To See The Essential Traits And Features In The Beloved Person; And Even More, He Sees That Which Is Potential In Him, Which Is Not Yet Actualized. Furthermore, By His Love, The Loving Person Enables The Beloved Person To Actualize These Potentialities. By Making Him Aware Of What He Can Be And What He Should Become, He Makes These Potentialities Come True.
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Fate
Men
What Man Actually Needs Is Not A Tensionless State But Rather The Striving And Struggling For Some Goal Worthy Of Him. What He Needs Is Not The Discharge Of Tension At Any Cost, But The Call Of A Potential Meaning Waiting To Be Fulfilled By Him.
Life
Change
Happiness
There Is Nothing In The World, I Venture To Say, That Would So Effectively Help One To Survive Even The Worst Conditions As The Knowledge That There Is A Meaning In One's Life.
World
Venture
Helping
I Never Would Have Made It If I Could Not Have Laughed. It Lifted Me Momentarily Out Of This Horrible Situation, Just Enough To Make It Livable.
Happiness
Laughter
Laughing
If There Is Meaning In Life At All, Then There Must Be Meaning In Suffering.
Suffering
Meaning Of Life
Mans Search For Meaning
Success, Like Happiness, Is The Unexpected Side Effect Of One's Personal Dedication To A Cause Greater Than Oneself.
Dedication
Causes
Sides
For The First Time In My Life I Saw The Truth As It Is Set Into Song By So Many Poets, Proclaimed As The Final Wisdom By So Many Thinkers. The Truth - That Love Is The Ultimate And Highest Goal To Which Man Can Aspire. Then I Grasped The Meaning Of The Greatest Secret That Human Poetry And Human Thought And Belief Have To Impart: The Salvation Of Man Is Through Love And In Love.
Life
Change
Song
The Struggle For Existence Is A Struggle 'for' Something; It Is Purposeful And Only In So Being Is It Meaningful And Able To Bring Meaning Into Life.
Meaningful
Struggle
Able
As A Professor In Two Fields, Neurology And Psychiatry, I Am Fully Aware Of The Extent To Which Man Is Subject To Biological, Psychological And Sociological Conditions. But In Addition To Being A Professor In Two Fields I Am A Survivor Of Four Camps - Concentration Camps, That Is - And As Such I Also Bear Witness To The Unexpected Extent To Which Man Is Capable Of Defying And Braving Even The Worst Conditions Conceivable.
Men
Two
Survivor
For Success, Like Happiness, Cannot Be Pursued; It Must Ensue, And It Only Does So As The Unintended Side-effect Of One's Personal Dedication To A Cause Greater Than Oneself Or As The By-product Of One's Surrender To A Person Other Than Oneself.
Happiness
Dedication
Causes
Each Man Is Questioned By Life; And He Can Only Answer To Life By Answering For His Own Life; To Life He Can Only Respond By Being Responsible.
Life
Men
Answers
One Should Not Search For An Abstract Meaning Of Life ... Life Can Be Made Meaningful In A Threefold Way: First, Through What We Give To Life ... Second, By What We Take From The World ... Third, Through The Stand We Take Toward A Fate We No Longer Can Change.
Meaningful
Fate
Giving
What Is Demanded Of Man Is Not, As Some Existential Philosophers Teach, To Endure The Meaninglessness Of Life, But Rather To Bear His Incapacity To Grasp Its Unconditional Meaningfulness In Rational Terms.
Men
Bears
Philosopher
Between Stimulus And Response Is The Freedom To Choose.
Healing
Conflict
Stimulus And Response
Man Can Only Find Meaning For His Existence In Something Outside Himself.
Men
Existence
Find Me
The Last Freedom Is Choosing Your Attitude.
Attitude
Lasts
The Meaning Of My Life Is To Help Others Find Meaning In Theirs.
Helping Others
Helping
Life Is
In His Creative Work The Artist Is Dependent On Sources And Resources Deriving From The Spiritual Unconscious.
Spiritual
Artist
Creative
The More One Forgets One’s Own Self, The More Human The Person Becomes.
Self
Forget
Humans
Everyone Has His Own Specific Vocation Or Mission In Life; Everyone Must Carry Out A Concrete Assignment That Demands Fulfillment. Therein He Cannot Be Replaced, Nor Can His Life Be Repeated, Thus, Everyone's Task Is Unique As His Specific Opportunity To Implement It.
Inspirational
Change
Wisdom
Happiness Cannot Be Attained By Wanting To Be Happy - It Must Come As The Unintended Consequence Of Working For A Goal Greater Than Oneself.
Goal
Psychology
Unintended Consequences
A Life Of Short Duration...could Be So Rich In Joy And Love That It Could Contain More Meaning Than A Life Lasting Eighty Years.
Years
Joy
And Love
As The Struggle For Survival Has Subsided, The Question Has Emerged: Survival For What? Ever More People Have The Means To Live, But No Meaning To Live For.
Struggle
Mean
People
Love Goes Very Far Beyond The Physical Person Of The Beloved. It Finds Its Deepest Meaning In Its Spiritual Being, His Inner Self. Whether Or Not He Is Actually Present, Whether Or Not He Is Still Alive At All, Ceases Somehow To Be Of Importance.
Spiritual
Self
Alive
Sports Allow Men To Build Up Situations Of Emergency. What He Then Demands Of Himself Is Unnecessary Achievement - And Unnecessary Sacrifice. He Artificially Creates The Tension That He Has Been Spared By Affluent Society.
Sports
Sacrifice
Men
Self-actualization Cannot Be Attained If It Is Made An End In Itself, But Only As A Side Effect Of Self-transcendence.
Self
Sides
Side Effects
Every Human Being Has The Freedom To Change At Any Instant.
Instant
Humans
Search For Meaning
The Attempt To Develop A Sense Of Humor And To See Things In A Humorous Light Is Some Kind Of A Trick Learned While Mastering The Art Of Living.
Art
Humorous
Light
For The World Is In A Bad State, But Everything Will Become Still Worse Unless Each Of Us Does His Best.
Doe
World
States
A Sound Philosophy Of Life, I Think, May Be The Most Valuable Asset For A Psychiatrist To Have When He Is Treating A Patient.
Philosophy
Thinking
Mentor
When A Man Finds That It Is His Destiny To Suffer, He Will Have To Accept His Suffering As His Task. . . . He Will Have To Acknowledge The Fact That Even In Suffering He Is Unique And Alone In The Universe. No One Can Relieve Him Of His Suffering Or Suffer In His Place. His Unique Opportunity Lies In The Way In Which He Bears His Burden.
Lying
Acceptance
Unique
The Last Of Human Freedoms - The Ability To Chose One's Attitude Especially An Attitude Of Gratitude In A Given Set Of Circumstances Especially In Difficult Circumstances.
Gratitude
Attitude
Lasts
Life Asks Of Every Individual A Contribution, And It Is Up To That Individual To Discover What It Should Be
Individual
Should
Contribution
The Quest For Meaning Is The Key To Mental Health And Human Flourishing
Keys
Quests
Mental Health
But My Mind Clung To My Wife's Image, Imagining It With An Uncanny Acuteness. I Heard Her Answering Me, Saw Her Smile, Her Frank And Encouraging Look. Real Or Not, Her Look Then Was More Luminous Than The Sun Which Was Beginning To Rise.
Real
Wife
Mind
This Is The Core Of The Human Spirit ... If We Can Find Something To Live For - If We Can Find Some Meaning To Put At The Center Of Our Lives - Even The Worst Kind Of Suffering Becomes Bearable.
Suffering
Spirit
Kind
Man Is Capable Of Changing The World For The Better If Possible, And Of Changing Himself For The Better If Necessary.
Men
World
Search For Meaning
When A Man Finds That It Is His Destiny To Suffer, He Will Have To Accept His Suffering As His Task; His Single And Unique Task. He Will Have To Acknowledge The Fact That Even In Suffering He Is Unique And Alone In The Universe. No One Can Relieve Him Of His Suffering Or Suffer In His Place. His Unique Opportunity Lies In The Way In Which He Bears His Burden.
Lying
Unique
Opportunity
Our Attitude Towards What Has Happened To Us In Life Is The Important Thing To Recognize. Once Hopeless, My Life Is Now Hope-full, But It Did Not Happen Overnight. The Last Of Human Freedoms, To Choose One's Attitude In Any Given Set Of Circumstances, Is To Choose One's Own Way.
Mom
Attitude
Parent
Man Is Not Fully Conditioned And Determined But Rather Determines Himself Whether He Gives In To Conditions Or Stands Up To Them.
Men
Giving
Determined
Our Main Motivation For Living Is Our Will To Find Meaning In Life.
Motivation
Find Me
Meaning Life
The Last Of The Human Freedoms — To Choose One's Attitude In Any Given Set Of Circumstances, To Choose One's Own Way.
Life
Motivational
Inspiring
We Must Never Forget That We May Also Find Meaning In Life Even When Confronted With A Hopeless Situation, When Facing A Fate That Cannot Be Changed. For What Then Matters Is To Bear Witness To The Uniquely Human Potential At Its Best, Which Is To Transform A Personal Tragedy Into A Triumph, To Turn One's Predicament Into A Human Achievement. When We Are No Longer Able To Change A Situation-just Think Of An Incurable Disease Such As Inoperable Cancer-we Are Challenged To Change Ourselves.
Cancer
Fate
Thinking
[speaking Of His Experience In A Concentration Camp:] As We Said Before, Any Attempt To Restore A Man's Inner Strength In The Camp Had First To Succeed In Showing Him Some Future Goal...woe To Him Who Saw No More Sense In His Life, No Aim, No Purpose, And Therefore No Point In Carrying On. He Was Soon Lost.
Men
Goal
Inner Strength
Love Goes Very Far Beyond The Physical Person Of The Beloved.
Beloved
Mans Search For Meaning
Search For Meaning
A Human Being Is A Deciding Being.
Inspirational
Choices
Thrive
. . . Nothing Could Touch The Strength Of My Love, And The Thoughts Of My Beloved. Had I Known Then That My Wife Was Dead, I Think That I Still Would Have Given Myself, Undisturbed By That Knowledge, To The Contemplation Of That Image, And That My Mental Conversation With Her Would Have Been Just As Vivid And Just As Satisfying. "set Me Like A Seal Upon Thy Heart, Love Is As Strong As Death."
Strong
Heart
Love Is
Our Greatest Human Freedom Is That, Despite Whatever Our Physical Situation Is In Life, We Are Always Free To Choose Our Thoughts!
Situation
Humans
Despite
Love Is The Only Way To Grasp Another Human Being In The Innermost Core Of His Personality. No One Can Become Fully Aware Of The Very Essence Of Another Human Being Unless He Loves Him. By His Love He Is Enabled To See The Essential Traits And Features.
Love
Essence
Personality
I Would Say That Our Patients Never Really Despair Because Of Any Suffering In Itself! Instead, Their Despair Stems In Each Instance From A Doubt As To Whether Suffering Is Meaningful. Man Is Ready And Willing To Shoulder Any Suffering As Soon And As Long As He Can See A Meaning In It.
Meaningful
Men
Long
I Shall Never Forget How I Was Roused One Night By The Groans Of A Fellow Prisoner, Who Threw Himself About In His Sleep, Obviously Having A Horrible Nightmare. Since I Had Always Been Especially Sorry For People Who Suffered From Fearful Dreams Or Deliria, I Wanted To Wake The Poor Man. Suddenly I Drew Back The Hand Which Was Ready To Shake Him, Frightened At The Thing I Was About To Do. At That Moment I Became Intensely Conscious Of The Fact That No Dream, No Matter How Horrible, Could Be As Bad As The Reality Of The Camp Which Surrounded Us, And To Which I Was About To Recall Him.
Dream
Sorry
Sleep
Man's Search For Meaning Is The Primary Motivation In His Life And Not A "secondary Rationalization" Of Instinctual Drives. This Meaning Is Unique And Specific In That It Must And Can Be Fulfilled By Him Alone; Only Then Does It Achieve A Significance Which Will Satisfy His Own Will To Meaning.
Motivation
Unique
Men
Life Is Not Primarily A Quest For Pleasure, As Freud Believed, Or A Quest For Power, As Alfred Adler Taught, But A Quest For Meaning. The Greatest Task For Any Person Is To Find Meaning In His Or Her Own Life.
Tasks
Quests
Taught
It Is True That We Can See The Therapist As A Technician Only If We Have First Viewed The Patient As Some Sort Of Machine.
Firsts
Machines
Patient
Challenging The Meaning Of Life Is The Truest Expression Of The State Of Being Human.
Motivational
Expression
Challenges
Freedom Is In Danger Of Degenerating Into Mere Arbitrariness Unless It Is Lived In Terms Of Responsibleness. That Is Why I Recommend That The Statue Of Liberty On The East Coast Be Supplemented By A Statue Of Responsibility On The West Coast.
Faith
Inspiration
Responsibility
When A Person Can’t Find A Deep Sense Of Meaning, They Distract Themselves With Pleasure.
Pleasure
Persons
We Dislike Talking About Our Experiences. No Explanations Are Needed For Those Who Have Been Inside, And The Others Will Understand Neither How We Felt Then Nor How We Feel Now.
Talking
Explanation
Needed
To Draw An Analogy: A Man's Suffering Is Similar To The Behavior Of A Gas. If A Certain Quantity Of Gas Is Pumped Into An Empty Chamber, It Will Fill The Chamber Completely And Evenly, No Matter How Big The Chamber. Thus Suffering Completely Fills The Human Soul And Conscious Mind, No Matter Whether The Suffering Is Great Or Little. Therefore The "size" Of Human Suffering Is Absolutely Relative.
Men
Soul
Mind
Then I Grasped The Meaning Of The Greatest Secret That Human Poetry And Human Thought And Belief Have To Impart: The Salvation Of Man Is Through Love And In Love.
Love
Men
Secret
Man Does Not Simply Exist But Always Decides What His Existence Will Be, What He Will Become The Next Moment. By The Same Token, Every Human Being Has The Freedom To Change At Any Instant.
Men
Doe
Next
Nothing Is Likely To Help A Person Overcome Or Endure Troubles Than The Consciousness Of Having A Task In Life.
Inspirational
Life
Motivational
An Abnormal Reaction To An Abnormal Situation Is Normal Behavior.
Abnormal
Behavior
Reactions
Understanding Quotes: Their Essence and Application

Quotes, or quotations, are powerful tools in communication, encapsulating ideas, emotions, and wisdom in concise expressions. They serve various purposes across different contexts, from academic writing to everyday conversation.

1. Defining Quotes

A quote is a repetition of someone else's statement or thoughts. It can be a direct replication of words spoken or written by another individual, often used to support arguments, provide evidence, or convey profound insights.


2. The Importance of Quotes

2.1. Enhancing Credibility

Incorporating quotes from authoritative sources can bolster the credibility of your work. By referencing experts or primary sources, you demonstrate thorough research and a solid foundation for your arguments.


2.2. Providing Evidence

Quotes serve as concrete evidence to support claims. In academic and professional writing, they validate points made, offering readers a basis to trust the information presented.


2.3. Conveying Emotions and Perspectives

Quotes can encapsulate emotions and perspectives succinctly. They allow writers to express complex feelings or viewpoints through the words of others, often more eloquently than paraphrasing.


3. Types of Quotes

3.1. Direct Quotes

Direct quotes involve copying the exact words from a source, enclosed in quotation marks. They are used when the original wording is significant or particularly well-expressed.


3.2. Indirect Quotes (Paraphrasing)

Indirect quotes restate the original message in your own words. While not enclosed in quotation marks, they still require proper attribution to the original source.


3.3. Block Quotes

Block quotes are lengthy direct quotations, formatted as a separate block of text. They are typically used for quotes exceeding a certain length, varying by citation style. For instance, in APA style, quotes longer than 40 words are formatted as block quotes.



4. Proper Usage of Quotes


4.1. Contextual Relevance

Ensure that the quote you choose is relevant to the topic and adds value to your content. Avoid inserting quotes solely for decorative purposes.


4.2. Integration into Your Writing

Seamlessly integrate quotes into your writing. Introduce them appropriately and follow up with analysis or commentary to connect them to your main points.


4.3. Attribution and Citation

Always attribute quotes to their original authors and provide proper citations according to the required style guide (APA, MLA, Chicago, etc.).


5. Common Mistakes to Avoid


5.1. Overusing Quotes

Relying too heavily on quotes can overshadow your voice. Use them sparingly to support your arguments, not replace them.


5.2. Lack of Analysis

Presenting a quote without analysis or explanation can leave readers questioning its relevance. Always follow up with your interpretation or discussion.


5.3. Misquoting or Taking Out of Context

Ensure that quotes are accurate and not taken out of context, as this can mislead readers and undermine your credibility.



6. Quotes in Different Contexts


6.1. Academic Writing

In academic writing, quotes are used to support arguments, provide evidence, and engage with existing literature. Proper citation is crucial to avoid plagiarism.


6.2. Journalism

Journalists use quotes to provide firsthand accounts, add authenticity, and present multiple perspectives within a story.


6.3. Literature and Creative Writing

In literature, quotes can be used to convey character voices, themes, and stylistic elements. They enrich narratives and provide depth to storytelling.



7. Punctuation and Formatting


Understanding the correct punctuation and formatting of quotes is essential:


Quotation Marks: Always enclose direct quotes within quotation marks.


Punctuation Placement: In American English, periods and commas are placed inside quotation marks, while colons and semicolons are placed outside.


Block Quotes: For longer quotes, format them as block quotes without quotation marks, and indent the entire block.



8. Ethical Considerations


Ethical use of quotes involves accurate representation, proper attribution, and respect for intellectual property. Misuse can lead to plagiarism, which carries serious academic and professional consequences.

9. Tools for Managing Quotes


Utilize tools like citation generators and plagiarism checkers to manage quotes effectively. These tools help ensure proper formatting and originality in your writing.



Conclusion


Quotes are invaluable in enriching content, providing evidence, and conveying complex ideas succinctly. When used appropriately, they enhance the quality and credibility of your writing. Always ensure relevance, proper integration, and ethical usage to maximize their impact.


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