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I Shall Never Forget How I Was Roused One Night By The Groans Of A Fellow Prisoner, Who Threw Himself About In His Sleep, Obviously Having A Horrible Nightmare. Since I Had Always Been Especially Sorry For People Who Suffered From Fearful Dreams Or Deliria, I Wanted To Wake The Poor Man. Suddenly I Drew Back The Hand Which Was Ready To Shake Him, Frightened At The Thing I Was About To Do. At That Moment I Became Intensely Conscious Of The Fact That No Dream, No Matter How Horrible, Could Be As Bad As The Reality Of The Camp Which Surrounded Us, And To Which I Was About To Recall Him.

-Viktor E. Frankl

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I Shall Never Forget

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I Shall Never Forget How I Was Roused One Night By The Groans Of A Fellow Prisoner, Who Threw Himself About In His Sleep, Obviously Having A Horrible Nightmare. Since I Had Always Been Especially Sorry For People Who Suffered From Fearful Dreams Or Deliria, I Wanted To Wake The Poor Man. Suddenly I Drew Back The Hand Which Was Ready To Shake Him, Frightened At The Thing I Was About To Do. At That Moment I Became Intensely Conscious Of The Fact That No Dream, No Matter How Horrible, Could Be As Bad As The Reality Of The Camp Which Surrounded Us, And To Which I Was About To Recall Him.

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Positive Thinking

No Man Should Judge Unless He Asks Himself In Absolute Honesty Whether In A Similar Situation He Might Not Have Done The Same.

A Man Who Becomes Conscious Of The Responsibility He Bears Toward A Human Being Who Affectionately Waits For Him, Or To An Unfinished Work, Will Never Be Able To Throw Away His Life. He Knows The "why" For His Existence, And Will Be Able To Bear Almost Any "how."

Thus, Human Existence-at Least As Long As It Has Not Been Neurotically Distorted-is Always Directed To Something, Or Someone, Other Than Itself, Be It A Meaning To Fulfill Or Another Human Being To Encounter Lovingly.

I Do Not Forget Any Good Deed Done To Me & I Do Not Carry A Grudge For A Bad One.

How Can We Dare To Predict The Behavior Of Man? We May Predict The Movements Of A Machine, Of An Automaton; More Than This, We Many Even Try To Predict The Mechanisms Or "dynamisms" Of The Human Psyche As Well. But Man Is More Than Psyche.

Sunday Neurosis, That Kind Of Depression Which Afflicts People Who Become Aware Of The Lack Of Content In Their Lives When The Rush Of The Busy Week Is Over And The Void Within Themselves Becomes Manifest.

One Evening, When We Were Already Resting On The Floor Of Our Hut, Dead Tired, Soup Bowls In Hand, A Fellow Prisoner Rushed In And Asked Us To Run Out To The Assembly Grounds And See The Wonderful Sunset. Standing Outside We Saw Sinister Clouds Glowing In The West And The Whole Sky Alive With Clouds Of Ever-changing Shapes And Colors, From Steel Blue To Blood Red. The Desolate Grey Mud Huts Provided A Sharp Contrast, While The Puddles On The Muddy Ground Reflected The Glowing Sky. Then, After Minutes Of Moving Silence, One Prisoner Said To Another, "how Beautiful The World Could Be.

I Recommend That The Statue Of Liberty Be Supplemented By A Statue Of Responsibility On The West Coast.

Woe To Him Who Saw No More Sense In His Life, No Aim, No Purpose, And Therefore No Point In Carrying On.

Human Kindness Can Be Found In All Groups, Even Those Which As A Whole It Would Be Easy To Condemn.

If There Is Meaning In Life At All, Then There Must Be Meaning In Suffering.

Meaning Of Life

Mans Search For Meaning

Life Is Never Made Unbearable By Circumstances, But Only By Lack Of Meaning And Purpose.

Now, It Is My Contention That The Deneuroticization Of Humanity Requires A Rehumanization Of Psychotherapy.

Happiness Cannot Be Pursued; It Must Ensue.

Stimulus And Response

Mans Search For Meaning

Despair Is Suffering Without Meaning.

Ironically Enough, In The Same Way That Fear Brings To Pass What One Is Afraid Of, Likewise A Forced Intention Makes Impossible What One Forcibly Wishes... Pleasure Is, And Must Remain, A Side-effect Or By-product, And Is Destroyed And Spoiled To The Degree To Which It Is Made A Goal In Itself.

As Such, I Also Bear Witness To The Unexpected Extent To Which Man Is Capable Of Defying And Braving Even The Worst Conditions Conceivable.

An Abnormal Reaction To An Abnormal Situation Is Normal Behavior.

In Some Ways Suffering Ceases To Be Suffering At The Moment It Finds A Meaning, Such As The Meaning Of A Sacrifice.

It Is Well Known That Humor, More Than Anything Else In The Human Make-up, Can Afford An Aloofness And An Ability To Rise Above Any Situation, Even If Only For A Few Seconds.

For What Then Matters Is To Bear Witness To The Uniquely Human Potential At Its Best, Which Is To Transform A Personal Tragedy Into A Triumph, To Turn One’s Predicament Into A Human Achievement.

No One Can Take From Us The Ability To Choose Our Attitudes Toward The Circumstances In Which We Find Ourselves. This Is The Last Of Human Freedoms.

To Draw An Analogy: A Man's Suffering Is Similar To The Behavior Of A Gas. If A Certain Quantity Of Gas Is Pumped Into An Empty Chamber, It Will Fill The Chamber Completely And Evenly, No Matter How Big The Chamber. Thus Suffering Completely Fills The Human Soul And Conscious Mind, No Matter Whether The Suffering Is Great Or Little. Therefore The "size" Of Human Suffering Is Absolutely Relative.

Fear May Come True That Which One Is Afraid Of.

The Angels Are Lost In Perpetual Contemplation Of An Infinite Glory.

A Sound Philosophy Of Life, I Think, May Be The Most Valuable Asset For A Psychiatrist To Have When He Is Treating A Patient.

Once An Individual's Search For Meaning Is Successful, It Not Only Renders Him Happy But Also Gives Him The Capability To Cope With Suffering

The Last Of Human Freedoms - The Ability To Chose One's Attitude Especially An Attitude Of Gratitude In A Given Set Of Circumstances Especially In Difficult Circumstances.

Being Tolerant Does Not Mean That I Share Another One's Belief. But It Does Mean That I Acknowledge Another One's Right To Believe, And Obey, His Own Conscience.

When We Are No Longer Able To Change A Situation - We Are Challenged To Change Ourselves.

There Are Only Two Races, The Decent And The Indecent.

We Who Lived In Concentration Camps Can Remember The Men Who Walked Through The Huts Comforting Others, Giving Away Their Last Piece Of Bread. They May Have Been Few In Number, But They Offer Sufficient Proof That Everything Can Be Taken From A Man But One Thing: The Last Of The Human Freedoms -- To Choose One's Attitude In Any Given Set Of Circumstances, To Choose One's Own Way.

I Shall Never Forget How I Was Roused One Night By The Groans Of A Fellow Prisoner, Who Threw Himself About In His Sleep, Obviously Having A Horrible Nightmare. Since I Had Always Been Especially Sorry For People Who Suffered From Fearful Dreams Or Deliria, I Wanted To Wake The Poor Man. Suddenly I Drew Back The Hand Which Was Ready To Shake Him, Frightened At The Thing I Was About To Do. At That Moment I Became Intensely Conscious Of The Fact That No Dream, No Matter How Horrible, Could Be As Bad As The Reality Of The Camp Which Surrounded Us, And To Which I Was About To Recall Him.

I Do The Unpleasant Tasks Before I Do The Pleasant Ones.

Life Is Not Primarily A Quest For Pleasure, As Freud Believed, Or A Quest For Power, As Alfred Adler Taught, But A Quest For Meaning. The Greatest Task For Any Person Is To Find Meaning In His Or Her Own Life.

Because Of Social Pressure, Individualism Is Rejected By Most People In Favor Of Conformity. Thus The Individual Relies Mainly Upon The Actions Of Others And Neglects The Meaning Of His Own Personal Life. Hence He Sees His Own Life As Meaningless And Falls Into The “existential Vacuum” Feeling Inner Void. Progressive Automation Causes Increasing Alcoholism, Juvenile Delinquency, And Suicide.

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