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I Used To Spend So Much Time Reacting And Responding To Everyone Else That My Life Had No Direction. Other People's Lives, Problems, And Wants Set The Course For My Life. Once I Realized It Was Okay For Me To Think About And Identify What I Wanted, Remarkable Things Began To Take Place In My Life.

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I Used To Spend So Much Time Reacting And Responding To Everyone Else That My Life Had No Direction. Other People's Lives, Problems, And Wants Set The Course For My Life. Once I Realized It Was Okay For Me To Think About And Identify What I Wanted, Remarkable Things Began To Take Place In My Life.

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God, Help Me Let Go Of My Need To Be Afraid. I Welcome Peace, Trust, Acceptance, And Safety Into My Life. I Will Make A Point Of Listening To My Healthy, Rational Fears, And Will Relinquish All The Others.

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Today, I Will Let Go. I Will Stop Trying To Control Everything. I Will Stop Trying To Make Myself Be And Do Better, And I Will Let Myself Be.

Letting Go Means We Stop Trying To Force Outcomes And Make People Behave. It Means We Give Up Resistance To The Way Things Are, For The Moment. It Means We Stop Trying To Do The Impossible-controlling That Which We Cannot-and Instead, Focus On What Is Possible-which Usually Means Taking Care Of Ourselves. And We Do This In Gentleness, Kindness, And Love, As Much As Possible.

Today I Will Do Something Just For The Fun Of It. I Will Find Something To Do That's Just For Me And I Won't Worry About What I Should Be Doing. I Will Learn How To Make Myself Feel Good And Enjoy Life To The Fullest.

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