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Why Do People Think That It's Appropriate To Talk To Me About My Body? Why Do Men Think It's Appropriate To Literally Write Comments That Not Only I Will See But That The World Will See About My Breast Size, The Clothes I Should Be Taking Off, The Kinds Of Things They Want To See More Of On Instagram, Which All Refer To My Body. And That's Not Even Getting Into The Threats Of Violence. And They Come Every Day. They Come Every Day. And It's Wild To Me That People Think This Stuff Is Appropriate.

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Sophia Bush

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Why Do People Think That It's Appropriate To Talk To Me About My Body? Why Do Men Think It's Appropriate To Literally Write Comments That Not Only I Will See But That The World Will See About My Breast Size, The Clothes I Should Be Taking Off, The Kinds Of Things They Want To See More Of On Instagram, Which All Refer To My Body. And That's Not Even Getting Into The Threats Of Violence. And They Come Every Day. They Come Every Day. And It's Wild To Me That People Think This Stuff Is Appropriate.

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