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When You Choose Wrong Because It Suits You Right Now, The Message You Give Others Is That When It Suits You, You May Likely Do Wrong Again. You Become A Threat And Liability To Others. That's A Pragmatic Reason, Outside Of Pride In Morality, Not To Do Wrong.

-Laura Schlessinger

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When You Choose Wrong

Laura Schlessinger

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When You Choose Wrong Because It Suits You Right Now, The Message You Give Others Is That When It Suits You, You May Likely Do Wrong Again. You Become A Threat And Liability To Others. That's A Pragmatic Reason, Outside Of Pride In Morality, Not To Do Wrong.

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