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Integrity, Honesty, And Honor May Not Give Immediate Rewards Or Gratification, And They Can Be Life-threatening (for Example, Being A Whistle-blower Or Turning State's Evidence). The Absence Of Integrity, Honesty, And Honor Do Not Always Bring Punishment Or Scorn, And Can Be Life-aggrandizing (connivers And Cheats Often Gain Power And Wealth). Therefore, Morality Must Be Its Own Reward.

-Laura Schlessinger

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Integrity, Honesty, And Honor

Laura Schlessinger

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Integrity, Honesty, And Honor May Not Give Immediate Rewards Or Gratification, And They Can Be Life-threatening (for Example, Being A Whistle-blower Or Turning State's Evidence). The Absence Of Integrity, Honesty, And Honor Do Not Always Bring Punishment Or Scorn, And Can Be Life-aggrandizing (connivers And Cheats Often Gain Power And Wealth). Therefore, Morality Must Be Its Own Reward.

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