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What Is Important Is To Realize That Whether We Understand Fully Who We Are Or What Will Happen When We Die, It's Our Purpose To Grow As Human Beings, To Look Within Ourselves, To Find And Build Upon That Source Of Peace And Understanding And Strength That Is Our Individual Self. And Then To Reach Out To Others With Love And Acceptance And Patient Guidance In The Hope Of What We May Become Together. Copyright: Elisabeth Kubler-ross Family Limited Partnership.

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What Is Important Is To Realize That Whether We Understand Fully Who We Are Or What Will Happen When We Die, It's Our Purpose To Grow As Human Beings, To Look Within Ourselves, To Find And Build Upon That Source Of Peace And Understanding And Strength That Is Our Individual Self. And Then To Reach Out To Others With Love And Acceptance And Patient Guidance In The Hope Of What We May Become Together. Copyright: Elisabeth Kubler-ross Family Limited Partnership.

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Those Who Have The Strength And The Love To Sit With A Dying Patient In The Silence That Goes Beyond Words Will Know That This Moment Is Neither Frightening Nor Painful, But A Peaceful Cessation Of The Functioning Of The Body. Copyright: Elisabeth Kubler-ross Family Limited Partnership.

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Losing A Loved One

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