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The Reality Is, I Like Imperfection. You Take Away From The World When You're Not Yourself. Whatever Is Unique And Special About You Was Designed By God. And When You Try To Be Someone Else, We Don't Get You. Who Knows What You Would Have Contributed To The World Had You Just Been Yourself, If You Had Just Celebrated Who You Are And Just Walked Boldly?

-Queen Latifah

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Queen Latifah

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The Reality Is, I Like Imperfection. You Take Away From The World When You're Not Yourself. Whatever Is Unique And Special About You Was Designed By God. And When You Try To Be Someone Else, We Don't Get You. Who Knows What You Would Have Contributed To The World Had You Just Been Yourself, If You Had Just Celebrated Who You Are And Just Walked Boldly?

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African American

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I Have A Drum Set In My Dressing Room. I Play Drums To Relax And Have Some Fun.

I've Loved Car Racing All My Life. I Watch Nascar Regularly, And Drag Racing Because We Have Raceway Park In New Jersey. I Think I Got It From My Father.

My Mother And I Definitely Got To A Point Where We Had To Have A Real Conversation And Talk Woman To Woman, Or Daughter To Mother, Friend To Friend - Just Off The Record, Clear The Air And Communicate. I Didn't Want To Drive My Mama Crazy, But At The Same Time, I Had To Do, I Had To Learn, I Had To Grow And She Understood That. She Knows Me Better Than Anyone Else On The Planet So I Tried To Think About That.

When I'm Wearing Too-high Heels And Swaying My Hips, I Do That Sharon Stone Kind Of Thing - She Has The Sexiest Walk, A New York Cool Thing That Throws You Back.

I Write Pretty Often. I Have A Home Studio. Music Is What I Do For Fun. I Never Get Tired Of It, So To Take A Break From [tv And Movies], I Would Go Make Some Music.

Sometimes You Do Have To Bank On Yourself. You Do Have To Believe In Your Ideas Enough To Really Get Out There And Fight For It Despite What People Think Of Some Young Kids From The Hood.

Most People Don't Have So Much Talent That They Can Become A Success All Their Own. We All Need People To Help Us And Lift Us Up.

Living For Today Will Bring About Dying For Today. You Can’t Just Think, ‘i’m Going To Die Anyway,’ Because That’s What’s Stopping Us From Moving Forward.

I Love Ralph Lauren, Just As A Designer. I Still Think He Could Make Some Better Sizes With His Clothes, But I Like The Idea Of His Classic American Style.

There Are Two Things I Wear. One Is A Curvation Undergarment Over My Whole Body, And Then Maybe I'll Also Put On Some Spanx. They're So Great. They Have A Way Of Smoothing Everything Out, And Then You Can Just Put On Whatever You Want. It Accents You And Makes You Feel Pretty.

Don't You Want To Know What's Real And What's Not? I Remember When I Was A Kid, You Know, This Whole Cold War Thing. They Had Us Scared Of The Russians. So, It's Almost Like, What's Real And What's Not?

Every Woman Is A Queen, And We All Have Different Things To Offer.

When It Came Time To Be A Professional Rapper, I Wouldn't Sign Anything Without Reading It. There Was No Way I Was Going To Have People Make Decisions For Me Or Wake Up One Day And Find That I Was Broke Because I Never Bothered To Read A Contract.

I'm As Involved As I Can Be. Whenever I'm Asked To Do Something, I Always Tend To Show Up.

The Good Thing About Movies Is That They're Subjective. You Can Connect To Different Themes Depending On Your Own Perspective.

There Were Musicians That Influenced Me, But They Weren't All Women. Teena Marie Was A Big Influence Because She Wrote And Produced Her Own Music, Which Let Me Know That Women Could Write And Produce Their Own Music, Which Was An Empowering Moment For Me.

I Did Jay Leno With Mike The Situation, And He Just - He Lives, Like, Ten Minutes From Me In Jersey. He's Like, 'if You Ever Get A Flat, Call Me. I'll Come Fix Your Tire.' That's How We Do. That's Neighborly, You Know?

I've Been Giving Back Since I Was A Teen, Handing Out Turkeys At Thanksgiving And Handing Out Toys At Toys Drives For Christmas. It's Very Important To Give Back As A Youth. It's As Simple As Helping An Old Lady Across The Street Or Giving Up Your Seat On The Bus For Someone Who Is Pregnant.

When You're Rapping, You Do Have To Perform To A Certain Degree, But Not Every Rapper Is Necessarily A Gifted Actor.

You Have To Allow Your Mind To Create And Then If You Want To Censor Something And Bring It Down Or Point It In A Different Direction, Then You Can Do It.

I Have Always Felt Strongly About Empowering Women. I'm Living Proof That, With Confidence And By Believing In Yourself, You Can Accomplish Any Goal.

I Like To Keep Some Coloring Tools Around To Draw Vistas.

To Wanna Be Me Is To Go Through Not Just The Good But The Bad. You Wanna Share My Story Identically? Man, You Gonna Take Some Lumps.

I Am Not One To Turn Down Macaroni And Cheese, Even Late At Night. I Love Italian Food. I Love Pasta... A Refrigerator Full Of Water And Gatorade? Honey, That's Just Not Gonna Happen.

I Had To Grow To Love My Body. I Did Not Have A Good Self-image At First. Finally It Occurred To Me, I'm Either Going To Love Me Or Hate Me. And I Chose To Love Myself. Then Everything Kind Of Sprung From There. Things That I Thought Weren't Attractive Became Sexy. Confidence Makes You Sexy.

I Like To Service The Full Audience Of America, So I Try To Do Things That Are Just Real Artistic, Like When They Don't Have The Most Money, But It's A Great Piece Of Work. Then, There Are Big, Fun Comedies And Big Animated Movies For Kids. I Want To Do Things For My Nieces And Nephews. Ultimately, We're Trying To Deliver Something Entertaining To An Audience. As Long As It Can Entertain The Audience, And It Makes Me Or My Niece And Nephew Laugh Or Cry, Then I Think It's Good.

I Totally Want Like 18 Babies.

I Have A No-die Clause In Every Movie. The Black People Can't Be Dying All The Time.

You Almost Have To Step Outside Yourself And Look At You As If You Were Someone Else You Really Care About And Really Want To Protect. Would You Let Someone Take Advantage Of That Person? Would You Let Someone Use That Person You Really Care About? Or Would You Speak Up For Them? If It Was Someone Else You Care About, You'd Say Something. I Know You Would. Okay, Now Put Yourself Back In That Body. That Person Is You. Stand Up And Tell 'em, "enough!

There Are Times You Can't Really See Or Even Feel How Sweet Life Can Be. Hopefully Its Mountains Will Be Higher Than Its Valleys Are Deep. I Know Things That Are Broken Can Be Fixed. Take The Punch If You Have To, Hit The Canvas And Then Get Up Again. Life Is Worth It.

I Was Not Born A Size 2. I'm Not Skinny, Period. I'm Not Willing To Sleep With The Director Or Step On Somebody Else's Neck To Get The Job.

You Can Huff And Puff. But Blow Me Down? I Doubt It Kid, Or You Get Your Ass Whupped.

Life Is So Much Bigger, Grander, Higher, And Wider Than We Allow Ourselves To Think.

There Are So Many Things I'd Like To Do. Like Becoming A Parent. To Me That Is The Next Natural Progression In Life.

You Can't Ask Someone Who Is Not Making That Kind Of Money To Go To The Record Store And Buy An Album When Someone Down The Street Has The Same Record With Same Sound Quality For $5.

Life's Not About Sitting At Home In Front Of The Tv Waiting For Your Life To Begin. Get Out There And Take Some Chances.

Beauty Is Not Just A White Girl. It's So Many Different Flavors And Shades.

It's Not Always Easy To Do The Right Thing. But, Doing The Right Thing Makes You Strong, It Builds Character.

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