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I Never Wanted To Give Up My Power. I Wanted To Be Able To Make My Own Decisions, So That's Why I Became Involved In Management, Bottom Line.
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I Never Wanted To

Queen Latifah
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I Never Wanted To Give Up My Power. I Wanted To Be Able To Make My Own Decisions, So That's Why I Became Involved In Management, Bottom Line.

Understanding the Quote: "i never wanted to give up my power. i wanted to be..."

This quote by Queen Latifah reflects deeply on the theme of giving up. It connects to the universal human journey of purpose, motivation, and reflection. Often categorized under Giving Up, Decision, Lines, the quote offers insight, emotional clarity, and intellectual inspiration to readers worldwide.

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Draws
Ifs
I Didn't Know I Had It In Me. There's More To All Of Us Than We Realize. Life Is So Much Bigger, Grander, Higher, And Wider Than We Allow Ourselves To Think. We're Capable Of So Much More Than We Allow Ourselves To Believe.
Believe
Thinking
Realize Life
Sometimes You Do Have To Bank On Yourself. You Do Have To Believe In Your Ideas Enough To Really Get Out There And Fight For It Despite What People Think Of Some Young Kids From The Hood.
Believe
Kids
Fighting
I Did Jay Leno With Mike The Situation, And He Just - He Lives, Like, Ten Minutes From Me In Jersey. He's Like, 'if You Ever Get A Flat, Call Me. I'll Come Fix Your Tire.' That's How We Do. That's Neighborly, You Know?
Jersey
Tire
Minutes
A Confident Woman Is A Sexy Woman, In My Opinion. And I Think Guys Find That To Be The Same Way.
Sexy
Thinking
Guy
You Have To Allow Your Mind To Create And Then If You Want To Censor Something And Bring It Down Or Point It In A Different Direction, Then You Can Do It.
Mind
Different
Want
Running For Office Was Definitely Something I've Thought About. When I Was Younger, I Wanted To Major In Political Science. And I've Been Engaged In Current Events Since I Was A Kid. If I Can Make A Difference And Feel Passionately And Capable, Then I Would. Why Not?
Running
Kids
Differences
I Decided Early On That I Was Going To Put On My Crown And Rule My World By Acting Right And Treating Myself Like A Queen.
Queens
Acting Right
Crowns
I Don't Feel Like I Need To Share My Personal Life, And I Don't Care If People Think I'm Gay Or Not. Assume Whatever You Want. You Do It Anyway.
Gay
Thinking
People
If You Try To Follow Everyone Else's Mold, You'll Probably Fail At Some Point Because God Created Us Uniquely For A Reason.
Trying
Mold
Failing
I Don't Have To Really Be In The 60s. Every Time I Hail A Cab In New York, And They Pass Me By And Pick Up The White Person, Then I Get A Dose Of It. Or When They Don't Want To Take You To Harlem. I Grew Up With That.
New York
White
Want
I Feel Strongly That Women Who Look Like Me Should Feel Great. So I Am Not Changing.
Looks
Should
Feels
I Think As Far As The Music Industry Is Concerned, It's Kind Of Been The Wild, Wild West In A Way With The Internet, Which Is Not Necessarily A Bad Thing To Me.
Thinking
Way
West
If I Ran Into A 19-year-old Version Of Myself, I'd Just Tell Her To Live, Full Out. I Might Also Tell Her To Go Ahead And Have A Few Babies And Not Worry About The Timing Of It.
Baby
Years
Worry
I Designed My Whole Image. That Was All Me. I Just Bought Some Regular Clothes, Threw A Medallion Around My Neck, And That Was It. The Next Thing I Know, That's The Look.
Clothes
Looks
Next
To Step Into Acting Was Not That Difficult A Transition To Make. What Was Difficult Was The Work And The Practice That Went Into Becoming Good At It, Because I Hadn't Had Any Training.
Practice
Training
Acting
I'm Not Living Large; I Just Want To Live Comfortably. I Wanna Have Financial Stability That Is Unshakable.
Want
Financial
Unshakable
I Made Decisions That I Regret, And I Took Them As Learning Experiences... I'm Human, Not Perfect, Like Anybody Else.
Regret
Learning
Perfect
I Don't Have To Take A Trip Around The World Or Be On A Yacht In The Mediterranean To Have Happiness. I Can Find It In The Little Things, Like Looking Out Into My Backyard And Seeing Deer In The Fields.
Backyards
World
Littles
Two Records Put Me Over The Top With Hip-hop. One Of Them Was 'planet Rock,' And The Other Had No Lyrics - It Was Called 'numbers,' From A Group Called Kraftwerk. Every Kid In The 'hood In New York And New Jersey Was Popping, Locking, And Breaking To That Record. It Was The Hottest Track On The Street At The Time.
New York
Kids
Rocks
Anyone Who Knows Me Knows That I'm Way More Of A Joker Than I Am A Serious Person.
Serious Person
Way
Know Me
Roxanne Shanté Was Kind Of The First Female To Really Come Out And Get Respected By Dudes, Because She Went At Dudes Real Hard And Battled Them And Freestyled A Lot, And Really Came Off The Head A Lot.
Real
Female
Firsts
I Write Pretty Often. I Have A Home Studio. Music Is What I Do For Fun. I Never Get Tired Of It, So To Take A Break From [tv And Movies], I Would Go Make Some Music.
Fun
Home
Writing
We Ignore Our Feelings A Lot, I Realize. Many Of Us Have To... Until They Really Bite Us In The Butt.
Feelings
Realizing
Bites
Beauty Is Not Just A White Girl. It's So Many Different Flavors And Shades.
Girl
White
Different
I Don't Have Any Regrets. If I Could Have Talked To My 19- Or 20-year-old Self, I Would Have Said, 'you're Going To Be Fine. It Ain't That Serious!'
Regret
Years
Self
You Can't Ask Someone Who Is Not Making That Kind Of Money To Go To The Record Store And Buy An Album When Someone Down The Street Has The Same Record With Same Sound Quality For $5.
Sound Quality
Albums
Records
If We Focus On Our Health, Including Our Inner Health, Our Self-esteem, And How We Look At Ourselves And Our Confidence Level, We'll Tend To Be Healthier People Anyway, We'll Tend To Make Better Choices For Our Lives, For Our Bodies, We'll Always Be Trying To Learn More, And Get Better As Time Goes On.
Self Esteem
People
Focus
Business Is Fun. Controlling Your Own Destiny Is Fun. Creating An Idea And Turning It Into A Movie; Finding An Artist And Guiding Their Career And Bringing Them To Some Type Of Status - There's Joy In That.
Fun
Artist
Destiny
There Is No Profession More Essential Than That Of An Educator, And It's Time For All Of Us To Embrace And Celebrate Their Importance And Contribution To America's Children.
Teacher
Children
America
I'm Thinking Wanting To Succeed Is Something In My Dna; I'm Not Like 'i've Got To Succeed,' I Just Don't Think About That... I See A Silver Lining In Everything And I See A Lesson In Everything.
Thinking
Dna
Lessons
You Have To Stand For What You Believe In And Sometimes You Have To Stand Alone.
Believe
Sometimes
Stand Alone
I Try To Only Commit Myself To Things That I Think I Can Accomplish And Commit Myself To 100 Percent. I Try Not To Bite Off More Than I Can Chew.
Thinking
Trying
Accomplish
There Are So Many Things I'd Like To Do. Like Becoming A Parent. To Me That Is The Next Natural Progression In Life.
Parent
Next
Becoming
I Want To Have And Adopt. I Always Have, Ever Since I Was 18 I Wanted A Baby And I Wanted To Have And Adopt Because There Are A Lot Of Kids. I Want To Adopt An American Baby Though, You Know What I Mean, No Offense. Just Because There Are So Many Kids Here That Need Our Help.
Baby
Mean
Kids
Bowling, I Like Bowling. I've Been Getting Into This Bowling Thing. It's Kinda Fun.
Fun
Bowling
You Can't Let Fear Paralyze You. The Worse That Can Happen Is You Fail, But Guess What: You Get Up And Try Again. Feel That Pain, Get Over It, Get Up, Dust Yourself Off And Keep It Moving.
Pain
Moving
Dust
I'm Not Allowed To Get A Big Head, I've Still Got To Do The Simple Things In Life.
Simple
Things In Life
Bigs
My House Borders Horse Farms, And I Can Look Out My Window And See The Horses And The New Colts. It's Really Peaceful.
Horse
House
Peaceful
I Promised My Mom That If, After A Year Of Putting 150 Percent Into My Career It Didn't Work Out, I Would Go Back To School. I Never Did Go Back.
Mom
School
Years
I Really Don't Know How To Be Anyone Else, And Whenever I Try To Be Anyone Else, I Fail Miserably. Or I Disappoint Myself. It Doesn't Build My Self-esteem, And It Doesn't Help Me Grow Me At All.
Self Esteem
Trying
Helping
I've Never Been The Straight Rapper That Is Going To Stand In A Cipher And Battle All Day. I Started Off Battle Rapping, But To Me, Making Songs Became More Important Than Freestyles... I've Met Many Rappers Who Can Freestyle But Can't Make A Record.
Song
Rap
Battle
I Like Pirate's Booty. Prunes And Olives, Too. I Love Hummus. I Can Eat That Until I Die. I Tend To Eat Mostly Organic Food.
Pirate
Booty
Olives
Most People Don't Have So Much Talent That They Can Become A Success All Their Own. We All Need People To Help Us And Lift Us Up.
People
Needs
Helping
[when I'm Not Working I Like To] Listen To Music, Watch Something Really Funny Like South Park.
Watches
Parks
Listening To Music
Jumping Off That Cliff In Jamaica.it Was Years Ago. It Was At This Place Called Rick's Cafe. Actually, It Was Two Cliffs. They Were Pretty High, Probably A Good 40- 50-foot Jump Into The Ocean. That Was Crazy.
Crazy
Ocean
Jumping
To Me, Hip Hop Will Never Be Right Until Female Rappers Have A Stronger Voice In It.
Rapper
Voice
Hip Hop
I'd Like To Have And Adopt Children. I Think I'd Be A Great Mom, Honestly. I Don't Think I'll Have Any Problem Giving Them All The Love In The World. Discipline Will Be The Hard Part.
Mom
Children
Thinking
New Jersey Is A Great Place To Live. And We Have Given Some Of The Best Talent To The World, From Jack Nicholson, John Travolta, To Jerry Lewis To Bon Jovi To Frank Sinatra.
World
Jersey
Talent
Lets Be Clear, Dolly Parton Is A Rapper. Somewhere Before All The Country, I Don't Know What Happens Up There In The Mountains When You're Growing Up, But She Has Been Spitting Rhymes For A Very Long Time - 50 Years I'd Say.
Country
Growing Up
Rapper
Having Black Hair Is Unique In That Black Women Change Up Styles A Lot. You Can Walk Down One Street Block In New York City And See 10 Different Hairstyles That Black Women Are Wearing: Straight Curls, Short Cuts, Braids - We Really Run The Gamut.
Running
New York
Block
I Approach The Film Business The Way I Feel About Self-esteem. It's Something That Has To Be Maintained. That's Kind Of How I Feel About Positive Roles In Hollywood. They Have To Be Maintained. You Have To Purposefully, Intentionally Try To Make The Right Type Of Films. And The More People That Do That, The More Things Will Continue To Improve.
Self Esteem
People
Trying
There Is Nothing Like A Person With Confidence, Male Or Female, Not Conceitedness, But Confidence. That Inspires Other People.
People
Inspire
Males
My Mother And I Definitely Got To A Point Where We Had To Have A Real Conversation And Talk Woman To Woman, Or Daughter To Mother, Friend To Friend - Just Off The Record, Clear The Air And Communicate. I Didn't Want To Drive My Mama Crazy, But At The Same Time, I Had To Do, I Had To Learn, I Had To Grow And She Understood That. She Knows Me Better Than Anyone Else On The Planet So I Tried To Think About That.
Mother
Daughter
Crazy
For Me, My Criteria For Making Films Is All About Trying To Do Something Different From The Last Time. So If I Catch Myself Doing Too Much Of One Thing, I'm Always Trying To Move Away From That, Because It's Not Going To Be Challenging Enough To Keep My Attention And Focus.
Moving
Always Trying
Focus
I Totally Want Like 18 Babies.
Baby
Want
I Was Not Born A Size 2. I'm Not Skinny, Period. I'm Not Willing To Sleep With The Director Or Step On Somebody Else's Neck To Get The Job.
Jobs
Sleep
Directors
I've Loved Car Racing All My Life. I Watch Nascar Regularly, And Drag Racing Because We Have Raceway Park In New Jersey. I Think I Got It From My Father.
Father
Thinking
Car
I Feel Like Every Woman Is A Queen, And We Should Be Treated As Such, And We Should, You Know, Sort Of Request That Sort Of Treatment From Others.
Queens
Should
Treatment
I Am Not One To Turn Down Macaroni And Cheese, Even Late At Night. I Love Italian Food. I Love Pasta... A Refrigerator Full Of Water And Gatorade? Honey, That's Just Not Gonna Happen.
Funny
Food
Italian
I Always Loved All Kinds Of Music. I Would Watch Musicals A Lot As A Kid, On Tv, Watch The Fred Astaire Movies. I'd Watch 'the Wizard Of Oz.' I Was A Big Jerry Lewis Fan, And They'd Have These Big Bands And Someone Singing - Some Siren, Or Some Guy Singing Some Gorgeous Song. I Was Always Enamored Of That Style Of Music.
Song
Kids
Guy
What Would Your Life Be Like If You Found Out You Had 3 Weeks Left? And You Know That You Had Not Begun To Live? And You Had All These Dreams And All These Possibilities. And All These Things You Wanted To Do And Things You Wanted To Say And Now Time's Up?
Dream
Life Is Like
Week
I Have A No-die Clause In Every Movie. The Black People Can't Be Dying All The Time.
People
Black
Dying
I've Never Wanted To Be Put Into A Box, Not Musically.
Boxes
Wanted
Putting On Your Crown Is Really Like Accepting The Fact That You Are A Queen. You're A Great Woman. Wherever You Are In Life, Just Keep On That Path, And So For Me, Sometimes As Women, We Forget - We Forget That About Ourselves. So, Putting On Your Crown Is Sort Of Reminding Yourself That, Hey, I'm A Queen, And I Can Do What I Want In This Life And Take It.
Queens
Hey
Crowns
When I Want To Push Myself And Do Intense Workouts, I Do That, But I'm Not Going To Do It Because Anybody Thinks I Should Look A Certain Way. It's Really More About How I Feel And About Being Healthy.
Workout
Thinking
Healthy
I'd Say, If You Want To Be An Artist, Start With Your Art; Start With Making Great Music And It Will, Hopefully, Eventually Cut Through All Of The Nonsense That Is Out There.
Art
Cutting
Want
I Do Feel Like I Have A Direct Connection With God For Some Reason; Always Have Since I Was A Little Kid - I Would Talk To God, Talk To The Sky.
Kids
Sky
Connections
I Support Many Organizations That I Feel Are Doing The Right Thing, Like Alonzo Mourning's Foundation, Alicia Keys' Foundation, The Make-a-wish Foundation, And Other Well-established Foundations. I Kick Out A Lot Of Time And Money Wherever I Can.
Keys
Organization
Support
I Often Find It's Just The Confidence That Makes You Sexy, Not What Your Body Looks Like. It's How You Feel About Yourself That Makes You Sexy.
Sexy
Looks
Body
It's Great To Be Able To Employ People Who Other People Wouldn't Consider Viable Employees.
People
Able
Employee
I Am A Strong Woman With Or Without This Other Person, With Or Without This Job, And With Or Without These Tight Pants.
Strong Women
Jobs
Tight Pants
Some People Observe Life Naturally And Sometimes You Just Have To Let Things Out And Think About It Later.
Thinking
People
Sometimes
I Never Wanted To Give Up My Power. I Wanted To Be Able To Make My Own Decisions, So That's Why I Became Involved In Management, Bottom Line.
Giving Up
Decision
Lines
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