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My Mother Is A Big Believer In Being Responsible For Your Own Happiness. She Always Talked About Finding Joy In Small Moments And Insisted That We Stop And Take In The Beauty Of An Ordinary Day. When I Stop The Car To Make My Kids Really See A Sunset, I Hear My Mother’s Voice And Smile.

-Jennifer Garner

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Jennifer Garner

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My Mother Is A Big Believer In Being Responsible For Your Own Happiness. She Always Talked About Finding Joy In Small Moments And Insisted That We Stop And Take In The Beauty Of An Ordinary Day. When I Stop The Car To Make My Kids Really See A Sunset, I Hear My Mother’s Voice And Smile.

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