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My Illness Has Changed Me - I've Always Thought "life Is Short And I Wanna Make As Much Of It As I Can," But I Really Don't Have Time To Mess Around. This Has Really Been A Wake-up Call In Terms Of What's Important, And I'm Working Hard To Figure That Out. I Need To Get Better At Not Doing Favors For People All The Time. It's Hard Because There's So Many People Who Have Helped Me Get To The Point Where I'm In A Band That People Wanna Come See, Or Where People Pay Money To See Me Lecture.

-Kathleen Hanna

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My Illness Has Changed

Kathleen Hanna

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My Illness Has Changed Me - I've Always Thought "life Is Short And I Wanna Make As Much Of It As I Can," But I Really Don't Have Time To Mess Around. This Has Really Been A Wake-up Call In Terms Of What's Important, And I'm Working Hard To Figure That Out. I Need To Get Better At Not Doing Favors For People All The Time. It's Hard Because There's So Many People Who Have Helped Me Get To The Point Where I'm In A Band That People Wanna Come See, Or Where People Pay Money To See Me Lecture.

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Later As Things Progressed And I Saw The Direct Correlation Between Being Able To Keep Making Records And Having People Know About The Music, I Became More Interested In Using Popular Media As A Way To Get The Word Out.

I'm Not Sure Riot Grrrl Would Have Been As Big A Deal If The Internet Had Existed Back Then. Because There's So Much Stuff On The Internet. People Could Have Been Like, Oh, Whatever, I'm Going To Go Look At Pictures Of Barbie Vaginas, You Know What I Mean? There's So Many Different Things On The Internet, You Read One Article And Then You Read Something Linked Off That Article And You Go Down The Rabbit Hole.

Part Of Being In A Band, Being A Painter, Or Starting A Nonprofit Is That You're Going To Make Horrible Mistakes And Look Like A Total Idiot, But You're Never Going To Create That Thing That Really Connects With People If You Don't Fail Over And Over And Over Again.

In 1985, I Was Living With My Sister In Virginia, And Since I Was Still In High School, I Worked At Mcdonald's To Save Money To Get An Abortion. It Sounds Really Terrible, But It Was The Best Decision I Ever Made. It Was The First Time I Took Responsibility For My Actions. I Messed Up, Had Sex Without Contraception, And Got Pregnant At 15.

I Always Knew She Was Being Funny, But When I Tell My Therapist That My Mom Played The Trust Game With Me And Let Me Fall On The Ground, My Therapist Does Not Find That Funny. She's Like, "that's The Reason For Everything! That's Why You Have Such A Hard Time With Trust!" And I'm Like, "i Don't Really Have A Hard Time With Trust. I Thought It Was Funny."

Sexism And Racism And Homophobia And Classism Are So Naturalized. All These Stereotypes Make People Think It's Just Normal That Straight White Men Are Getting All The Breaks.

My Vision Of Punk Rock Was These Dudes Who Were Spitting On The Audience And Moshing. That's Why I Kind Of Left That Scene. Then I See All These People Around My Same Age Or Between 17 And 25 That Were Making Music Themselves In Their Own Town. They Weren't Just Singing, But Creating. I See Them Putting Out This Music Where There Are Tons Of Women Involved In The Scene And Involved In The Bands.

You Guys Are Seriously Missing Out Unless You All Start Listening To Girls.

I Made The Decision That My Contribution Needed To Be More Musical Than Political. My Music Was Enough, Politically. Art Matters. Art Was Enough. My Music Was Enough To Say What I Had To Say.

Obviously, We're Really Upset About The State Of The Election. It's Horrifying, As Everybody Knows, That We Could Have A Totally Fascist President.

I Never Thought That Someone Would Be Teaching One Of My Fanzines. I Never Thought I'd Be Off To Lecture At A College. It's Still Shocking To Me.

I Am Possibly Thinking About Doing An Internet Show In The Future That Will Highlight Political Organizations That I Seek Out To Let People Know About Them, Volunteer Opportunities, And Donation Opportunities.

It's Unexpected For Women's Issues To Be Brought Up In Places Other Than Women's Centers On College Campuses Or Crisis Places.

I Just Write What I Want To Write.

I'm Living In A World Where There Are Lgbtq Straight Alliances At High Schools. I Feel Pretty Psyched On That.

Feminism Rotates Between Backlash And Interest. And The Cool Thing About The Internet Is That It's Allowing Women More Access To Their Own History. Part Of The Problem Before The Internet Was That We Didn't Know Which Books To Read. Someone Had To Tell You.

I'm Lucky Enough To Have Been In The Age Before The Internet And Now During The Internet. I'm Grateful To Be A Witness To That. It's Horse And Buggy Versus Car. To See How Quickly Things Change Has Given Me A Renewed Sense Of Optimism. Does That Make Sense?

Find Something That Makes You Happy, Like Looking At Beautiful Pictures, Or, If You're Able, Listening To Beautiful Music, Or Sitting By The Window And Looking Outside - Small Things Like That Can Be Absolutely Huge.

It's So Important For People In Political Groups To Learn The Difference Between Productive Criticism And Not. When It's About Something You Can Change, It's Productive. But If It's Just Like "you Are An Evil Person", You Can't Change That. There's No Way Around That.

People Have Always Had These Weird Things About How You Have To Be Really Good Looking To Be A Singer.

I Do Have Personal Relationships With A Lot Of "fans," In Quotations. I Answer All My Mail, I Get Emails From Fans, And I Try To Answer Them All. That's Important To Me, But Occasionally There's The Thing Where People Basically Ask Me To Write Book Reports For Them, And I Don't Have That Kind Of Time. I Feel Like There's A Certain Sexism Involved, Like Because I'm A Woman I'm Supposed To Constantly Be Like Giving To Everybody.

The Cool Thing About The Internet Is That It's Allowing Women More Access To Their Own History.

I Feel So Lucky That I Met The Love Of My Life. You Know Somebody's In It To Win It When...you're Having A Seizure And They're Holding You.

Love Of My Life

What Usually Happens With Me Is That I Start With One Idea In Mind And Then Something Else Happens.

So Many Women Have Experienced Horrific Forms Of Male Violence Throughout Their Lives, And Why Isn't There A Song About How You Get Depressed Because Of It?

As I've Gotten Older, I've Realized That Things Are A Lot More Permeable. It's Not So Black And White: Not Every Journalist Is A Jerk.

Black And White

There's Comedians Who I Consider Extremely Punk Rock Who I've Seen Do Very Political Stand Up In Places Where Nobody Wants To Hear That. It's Uncomfortable And Scary And You Realize It's The Punkest Performance You've Ever Witnessed.

I Wanted To Make Something That I Wanted To Hear That I Wasn't Hearing.

You Learn That The Only Way To Get Rock-star Power As A Girl Is To Be A Groupie And Bare Your Breasts And Get Chosen For The Night. We Learn That The Only Way To Get Anywhere Is Through Men. And It's A Lie.

Just Because You're Wearing A Goofy Hat Doesn't Make It Performance Art.

People Are Actually Having Conversations About "is This Sexist?"

One Of The Reasons I Went Back To Music Even Though I Was Extremely Ill Was Because I Started To Forget Who I Was Aside From Being Sick. And When I'm Performing, Or Even Lecturing, It's Like I'm Myself Again, And That Was A Really Amazing Discovery - That, All Of A Sudden, I Have A Get-out-of-jail-free Card.

When You're A Musician And You Go Out Onstage, And You're Someone Who Loves Attention, You Are Going To Become A Role Model To Some Extent.

It's The Idea That We As People Can Control Our Own Destinies. The Government And The Corporations, More Even Than The Government, Can't Dictate What Artwork We're Supposed To Like Or What Comedy We're Supposed To Laugh At.

Women Didn't Want To Be On The Stage With Other Women Because They Didn't Want Their Bodies To Be Compared. They Didn't Want Another Female Act Opening For Them Because Of This Weird Competitive And Tokenistic Attitude.

It Takes Falling Down A Bunch Of Times Before You Start Running.

Feminism Is Something You Do. It's A Verb. It's What You Are. It's An Activity; It's Something You're Actively Engaged In.

I Was Never Trying To Be The Voice For Anybody Else. I Was Just Trying To Sing About What I Was Going Through, And Was Singing About Those Things Specifically Because I Knew There Was An Audience Not Being Served.

I'm Really Annoyed By The Wave Of Country Music That's Just A List Of Stuff. It Almost Sounds Like L.a. People Writing Country Music, Because It's Just A List Of Stuff: 'my Pickup Truck And My Cowboy Boots And My Levi's Jeans And My Girlfriend With The Short Shorts.' It's So Boring!

I Realized That Calling Yourself A Feminist Or Not Calling Yourself A Feminist, Just By Being In A Band Of All Girls, It's All You Talk About.

The More People, As You Know, Are Able To Be On Whatever Spectrum Of Femininity And Masculinity They Are On At That Moment, That Opens The Door For Women To Not Have To Be The Opposite Of What The Supposed Traditional Male Is.

Sometimes, Being A Feminist Artist, There Are Times Where I'm In A Position Where I Just Want To Feel Like I'm Saying All The Right Things Politically, Or I Feel Like I Have To Mention My Own Project Over Other People's Projects.

I'm More Interested In A Feminism That Ends Discrimination For All People. It's Not Just About A Woman Becoming The Ceo Of A Company Or Something. It's Connected To Racism And Classism And Gender Issues That Go Beyond The Binary.

I've Always Been Like, "look, You're Going To Die And It's Not Going To Matter After You Die That You Got Out Onstage And Bombed."

Music Is An Extremely Powerful Art Medium That Can Really Affect People's Emotions. It Is Amazing To Realize How Much Communities Can Be Born From Different Kinds Of Music And The People Who Appreciate Them.

My Advice For Someone Who Wants To Be Creative But Has A Chronic Illness Is To Think Of Something That You Can Do As Opposed To All The Things You Can't Do - And Do That. It's Just Like Gardening: What Can Grow In This Soil? There's Some Soil You Can Grow Roses In And Some Soil You Can Only Grow Cactuses In, So If You Can Only Grow Cactuses, Become The Best Cactus Grower In The Whole World. Taking Care Of Yourself Is The Most Important Thing. Find Something That Makes You Happy. Don't Get Down On Yourself That You Can't Run A 4k Or Dance All Night Long At A Fun Club. Give Yourself A Break.

For Whatever Reason I Just Remembered Being Six Years Old And My Parents Leaving The House And Trusting Me To Be Alone. I Had An Older Sister, I Think She Was Supposed To Babysit Me But She Immediately Ran Across The Street To Her Friend's House.

I Feel Like What I'm Best At Is Being A Musician And A Performer. I Want To Use That To Help People Who Are Good At Starting Nonprofits.

I Am Such A Bossy Producer And Such A Control Freak That There's A Part Of Me That Really Longs To Be Bossed Around.

In The '90s, People Wore Scrunchies, But It Was Very Uncool In The Punk Scene.

It Takes Your Mind Off Things When There's A Cat In Your Lip And He's Purring While You're Petting Him.

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