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Music Makes Us Want To Live. You Don't Know How Many Times People Have Told Me That They'd Been Down And Depressed And Just Wanted To Die. But Then A Special Song Caught Their Ear And That Helped Give Them Renewed Strength. That's The Power Music Has.

-Mary J. Blige

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Music Makes Us Want

Mary J. Blige

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Music Makes Us Want To Live. You Don't Know How Many Times People Have Told Me That They'd Been Down And Depressed And Just Wanted To Die. But Then A Special Song Caught Their Ear And That Helped Give Them Renewed Strength. That's The Power Music Has.

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