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In Life And In Love, There Is Only That Moment, The Now. The Only Reality We Know Is What We Experience This Very Second. Reality Is Not What Has Passed Or What Has Yet To Come Into Being. Grabbing Hold Of This Simple Idea Makes Life Magical Because It Brings Love Alive.

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In Life And In Love, There Is Only That Moment, The Now. The Only Reality We Know Is What We Experience This Very Second. Reality Is Not What Has Passed Or What Has Yet To Come Into Being. Grabbing Hold Of This Simple Idea Makes Life Magical Because It Brings Love Alive.

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Away From Each Other

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In The End You Have Only You.

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Value Yourself. The Only People Who Appreciate A Doormat Are People With Dirty Shoes.

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Life Is Uncharted Territory. It Reveals Its Story One Moment At A Time.

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There Is A Good Deal Of Excellent Research On Child's Play. It Has Shown Conclusively That Through Play, With The Freedom Of Action It Allows And The Stressless Environment In Which It Occurs, Children Discover, Relate To And Define Themselves And Their World. ...it Is, Therefore, Paradoxical That Many Educators And Parents Still Differentiate Between A Time For Learning And A Time For Play.

Love Is A Dynamic Interaction, Lived Every Second Of Our Lives, All Of Our Lives.

What We Need To Know About Loving Is No Great Mystery. We All Know What Constitutes Loving Behavior; We Need But Act Upon It, Not Continually Question It. Over-analysis Often Confuses The Issue And In The End Brings Us No Closer To Insight. We Sometimes Become Too Busy Classifying, Separating, And Examining, To Remember That Love Is Easy. It's We Who Make It Complicated.

It's Not Enough To Have Lived. We Should Be Determined To Live For Something.

Why Do Some People Always See Beautiful Skies And Grass And Lovely Flowers And Incredible Human Beings, While Others Are Hard-pressed To Find Anything Or Any Place That Is Beautiful?

Knowing That One Is Always Capable Of Change, The Second Step Lies In Making The Decision To Change. Change Does Not Occur By Merely Willing It Anymore Than Behavior Changes Simply Through Insight.

Behavior Change

You Are The Only You ... You Are The Best You. You Will Always Be The Second Best Anyone Else.

This Loving Person Is A Person Who Abhors Waste - Waste Of Time, Waste Of Human Potential. How Much Time We Waste. As If We Were Going To Live Forever.

The Greatest Risk Is To Risk Nothing At All

...the Opposite Of Love Is Not Hate - It's Apathy. It's Not Giving A Damn. If Somebody Hates Me, They Must "feel" Something ... Or They Couldn't Possibly Hate. Therefore, There's Some Way In Which I Can Get To Them.

Don't Spend Your Precious Time Asking "why Isn't The World A Better Place?" It Will Only Be Time Wasted. The Question To Ask Is "how Can I Make It Better?" To That There Is An Answer.

Love Is Not A Thing, It Is Not Lost When Given. You Can Offer Your Love Completely To Hundreds Of People And Still Retain The Same Love You Had Originally.

Most Of Us Remain Strangers To Ourselves, Hiding Who We Are, And Ask Other Strangers, Hiding Who They Are, To Love Us.

I'd Like To Be Remembered For Being A Good, Kind, Loving, Gentle Man Who Attempted To Live Wisely, And Who Cared A Lot.

Happiness And Love Are Just A Choice Away.

The Heart Is The Place Where We Live Our Passions. It Is Frail And Easily Broken, But Wonderfully Resilient. There Is No Point In Trying To Deceive The Heart. It Depends Upon Our Honesty For Its Survival.

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