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Each Of Us Is Responsible For Creating An Environment Of Warmth And Consideration For Those We Love. I Have Always Tried To Define A Good Day Not In Terms Of One In Which All Things Were Made Right And Comfortable For Me But Rather, As A Day In Which I Have Been Able To Make Another's Day More Loving And Special For Them. We Must Treat Each Other With Dignity. Not Because We Merit It But Because We Grow Best In Thoughtfulness.

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Each Of Us Is Responsible For Creating An Environment Of Warmth And Consideration For Those We Love. I Have Always Tried To Define A Good Day Not In Terms Of One In Which All Things Were Made Right And Comfortable For Me But Rather, As A Day In Which I Have Been Able To Make Another's Day More Loving And Special For Them. We Must Treat Each Other With Dignity. Not Because We Merit It But Because We Grow Best In Thoughtfulness.

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Catch The Beauty Of The Moment!

A Single Rose Can Be My Garden... A Single Friend, My World.

There Is Seemingly So Little Love Shared In This World, It Is Not Surprising That We Ask, "where Have All The Lovers Gone?" Since Love Is The Most Vital Energy For Good That Is Within Our Power To Utilize, It Is Puzzling Why We So Seldom Do So. Love Is Just A Useless, Abstract Idea Until We Put It Into Action...unless We Are Always Actively Living In Love, We Are Not Utilizing The Greatest Gift We Have Been Given And Which We, In Turn, Have To Offer.

There Is Nothing Wrong With Making Mistakes And Not Having All The Answers, So Long As We Are Willing To Admit This And Strive For Personal Betterment. Those Who Think They Know It All Have No Way Of Finding Out That They Don't.

If One Wishes To Know Love, One Must Live Love, In Action.

To Laugh Is To Risk Appearing A Fool, To Weep Is To Risk Appearing Too Sentimental, To Reach Out For Another Is To Risk Involvement, And To Expose Feelings Is To Risk Exposing One's True Self.

Never Idealize Others. They Will Never Live Up To Your Expectations.

The Easiest Thing To Be In The World Is You. The Most Difficult Thing To Be Is What Other People Want You To Be. Don't Let Them Put You In That Position.

Loving Yourself Involves The Discovery Of The True Wonder Of You; Not Only The Present You, But The Many Possibilities Of You. It Involves The Continual Realization That You Are Unique, Like No Other Person In The World, That Life Is, Or Should Be, The Discovery, The Development And The Sharing Of This Uniqueness.

Loving Yourself

A Loving Relationship Is One In Which The Loved One Is Free To Be Himself -- To Laugh With Me, But Never At Me; To Cry With Me, But Never Because Of Me; To Love Life, To Love Himself, To Love Being Loved. Such A Relationship Is Based Upon Freedom And Can Never Grow In A Jealous Heart

Our Talents Are The Gift That God Gives To Us... What We Make Of Our Talents Is Our Gift Back To God

We Created Time, And Now We Have Become The Slave Of Time.

There Are Scores Of People Waiting For Someone Just Like Us To Come Along; People Who Will Appreciate Our Compassion, Our Encouragement, Who Will Need Our Unique Talents. Someone Who Will Live A Happier Life Merely Because We Took The Time To Share What We Had To Give.

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