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I Think That Most Of The Action In Religion Is Around The Home, Is In Families, And Is In Individual Lives, And They Can Go On Their Own Searches, Watch Their Own Tv Shows, Read Their Own Books, Form Their Own Groups And Discuss It, But That's Where The Action Is - On The Home Front.

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I Think That Most Of The Action In Religion Is Around The Home, Is In Families, And Is In Individual Lives, And They Can Go On Their Own Searches, Watch Their Own Tv Shows, Read Their Own Books, Form Their Own Groups And Discuss It, But That's Where The Action Is - On The Home Front.

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