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As I've Gotten Older, And Now That My Kids Are Starting To Do What They Do, I Am Now Really Focusing On Sharing My Knowledge And Insights With Them To Help Guide Them On Their Journeys.

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As I've Gotten Older,

Jada Pinkett Smith

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As I've Gotten Older, And Now That My Kids Are Starting To Do What They Do, I Am Now Really Focusing On Sharing My Knowledge And Insights With Them To Help Guide Them On Their Journeys.

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