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You Would Not Ask Someone With A Broken Arm To Swim The English Channel, So You Cannot Demand That The Broken To Live As If They Were Whole.

-John Eldredge

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You Would Not Ask

John Eldredge

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You Would Not Ask Someone With A Broken Arm To Swim The English Channel, So You Cannot Demand That The Broken To Live As If They Were Whole.

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