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Yes. I Did More Research Than I Ever Wanted To And Saw Some Things I Wish I Didn't. I Went On Ride-alongs, Spent Time With Homicide, Cold Case, And Svu Detectives, Hung Out In Subways Learning How To Spot Pervs And Pick-pockets, Viewed An Autopsy, Went To A Police Firing Range, And Witnessed Court Cases And I Read, Read, Read.

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Yes. I Did More

Mariska Hargitay

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Yes. I Did More Research Than I Ever Wanted To And Saw Some Things I Wish I Didn't. I Went On Ride-alongs, Spent Time With Homicide, Cold Case, And Svu Detectives, Hung Out In Subways Learning How To Spot Pervs And Pick-pockets, Viewed An Autopsy, Went To A Police Firing Range, And Witnessed Court Cases And I Read, Read, Read.

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