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Years Later, My Wife, Ilusion, Woke Me Up To The Realization That You Can't Just "dump" Your Whole Species Simply Because You've Had A Few Bad Encounters With Some Of Its Members. ... Intimacy's A Greater Goal To Seek. ...that True Knowledge Of Intimacy Within Our Own Species Will Allow Us To Pass It Along To Interspecies Relations.

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Years Later, My Wife,

Cesar Millan

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Years Later, My Wife, Ilusion, Woke Me Up To The Realization That You Can't Just "dump" Your Whole Species Simply Because You've Had A Few Bad Encounters With Some Of Its Members. ... Intimacy's A Greater Goal To Seek. ...that True Knowledge Of Intimacy Within Our Own Species Will Allow Us To Pass It Along To Interspecies Relations.

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