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Women Should Have The True Nurse Calling, The Good Of The Sick First The Second Only The Consideration Of What Is Their 'place' To Do - And That Women Who Want For A Housemaid To Do This Or The Charwomen To Do That, When The Patient Is Suffering, Have Not The Making Of A Nurse In Them.

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Women Should Have The True Nurse Calling, The Good Of The Sick First The Second Only The Consideration Of What Is Their 'place' To Do - And That Women Who Want For A Housemaid To Do This Or The Charwomen To Do That, When The Patient Is Suffering, Have Not The Making Of A Nurse In Them.

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Women Dream Till They Have No Longer The Strength To Dream; Those Dreams Against Which They So Struggle, So Honestly, Vigorously, And Conscientiously, And So In Vain, Yet Which Are Their Life, Without Which They Could Not Have Lived; Those Dreams Go At Last.

Christ, If He Had Been A Woman, Might Have Been Nothing But A Great Complainer

Perhaps, If Prematurely We Dismiss Ourselves From This World, All May Even Have To Be Suffered Through Again - The Premature Birth May Not Contribute To The Production Of Another Being, Which Must Be Begun Again From The Beginning.

Religious Men Are And Must Be Heretics Now- For We Must Not Pray, Except In A "form" Of Words, Made Beforehand- Or Think Of God But With A Prearranged Idea.

For Us Who Nurse, Our Nursing Is A Thing, Which, Unless In It We Are Making Progress Every Year, Every Month, Every Week, Take My Word For It We Are Going Back. The More Experience We Gain, The More Progress We Can Make.

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A Woman Cannot Live In The Light Of Intellect. Society Forbids It. Those Conventional Frivolities, Which Are Called Her 'duties', Forbid It. Her 'domestic Duties', High-sounding Words, Which, For The Most Part, Are But Bad Habits (which She Has Not The Courage To Enfranchise Herself From, The Strength To Break Through), Forbid It.

She Said The Object And Color In The Materials Around Us Actually Have A Physical Effect On Us, On How We Feel.

Go Into A Room Where The Shutters Are Always Shut (in A Sick-room Or A Bed-room There Should Never Be Shutters Shut), And Though The Room Be Uninhabited-though The Air Has Never Been Polluted By The Breathing Of Human Beings, You Will Observe A Close, Musty Smell Of Corrupt Air-of Air Unpurified By The Effect Of The Sun's Rays.

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I Attribute My Success To This - I Never Gave Or Took Any Excuse.

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