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When You Get Divorced, All The Truths That Come Out, You Sit There And Go, 'what The F**k Was I Doing? What Was I Doing Believing That This Person Was Invested In This Way?' Which Is A Fantastically Strong Humiliation In The Best Sense. It Can Make Somebody Very Bitter And Very Hard And Closed Off, But I Find It Does The Opposite To Me.

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When You Get Divorced,

Sean Penn

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When You Get Divorced, All The Truths That Come Out, You Sit There And Go, 'what The F**k Was I Doing? What Was I Doing Believing That This Person Was Invested In This Way?' Which Is A Fantastically Strong Humiliation In The Best Sense. It Can Make Somebody Very Bitter And Very Hard And Closed Off, But I Find It Does The Opposite To Me.

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