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When I Was A Kid, My Mother Told Me That If You Could Not Be A Good Loser, Then There's No Way You Could Be A Good Winner.

-Halle Berry

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When I Was A

Halle Berry

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When I Was A Kid, My Mother Told Me That If You Could Not Be A Good Loser, Then There's No Way You Could Be A Good Winner.

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