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To Be Married In Our Profession Is Not An Easy Thing. Theres Too Many Beautiful People Around, Very Interesting People. Its Just A Matter Of Really Having-being Patient And Probably Having The Capacity And The Faith Of Falling In Love With Your Own Wife Again. That Happens To Me.

-Antonio Banderas

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Antonio Banderas

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To Be Married In Our Profession Is Not An Easy Thing. Theres Too Many Beautiful People Around, Very Interesting People. Its Just A Matter Of Really Having-being Patient And Probably Having The Capacity And The Faith Of Falling In Love With Your Own Wife Again. That Happens To Me.

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Falling In Love

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