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The Best Way To Establish Rapport With People And To Win Them Over To Your Side Is To Be Truly Interested In Them, To Listen With The Intention Of Really Learning About Them. When The Person Feels That You Are Really Interested In Getting To Know Them And Their Feelings, They Will Open Up To You And Share Their True Feelings With You Much More Quickly.

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The Best Way To Establish Rapport With People And To Win Them Over To Your Side Is To Be Truly Interested In Them, To Listen With The Intention Of Really Learning About Them. When The Person Feels That You Are Really Interested In Getting To Know Them And Their Feelings, They Will Open Up To You And Share Their True Feelings With You Much More Quickly.

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Most Everything That You Want Is Just Outside Your Comfort Zone." "everything You Want Is Out There Waiting For You To Ask. Everything You Want Also Wants You. But You Have To Take Action To Get It." "our Job Is Not To Figure Out The 'how'. The 'how' Will Show Up Out Of The Commitment And Believe In The 'what

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Love Would Never B A Promise Of A Rose Garden Unless It Is Showered With A Light Of Faith, Water Of Sincerity, And An Art Of Passion.

I Believe People Should Live Full Lives And Not Settle For Anything Less.

Jump, Then Grow Wings On The Way Down.

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If I Hadn't Spent Many Years Trying To Be As Compassionate As Mother Teresa, As Positive A Thinker As W. Clement Stone, As Prolific A Writer As Stephen King, And As Good A Speaker As Many Of The Legends I Have Studied, I Would Not Be As Successful As I Am Today.

Life Is Simply A Connect-the Dots Game, And All The Dots Have Already Been Identified And Organized By Somebody Else. All You Have To Do Is Follow The Blueprint, Use The System, Or Work The Program That They Provide.

Part Of Paying The Price Is The Willingness To Do Whatever It Takes To Get The Job Done. It Comes From A Declaration That You Are Going To Get It Done No Matter What It Takes, No Matter How Long It Takes, No Matter What Comes Up.

Repeating An Affirmation Several Times A Day Keeps You Focused On Your Goal, Strengthens Your Motivation, And Programs Your Subconscious By Sending An Order To Your Crew To Do Whatever It Takes To Make That Goal Happen.

Each Of Us Is Born With A Life Purpose. Identifying, Acknowledging, And Honoring This Purpose Is Perhaps The Most Important Action Successful People Take.

What Is The Why Behind Everything You Do?

Everything You Want Is Out There Waiting For You To Ask. Everything You Want Also Wants You. But You Have To Take Action To Get It.

You Have To Commit To The What, Before The How Shows Up.

Reject Rejection! If Someone Says No, Just Say Next

What We Have To Get Straight In Our Heads Is That Owning The Money Doesn't Mean Anything. "it's The Doing With Money That Develops Us - It's Not In The Having. And When You Have More, You're Enabled To Do More."

An Important Part Of Any Focusing Regimen Is To Set Aside Time At The End Of The Day - Just Before Going To Sleep - To Acknowledge Your Successes, Review Your Goals, Focus On Your Successful Future, And Make Specific Plans For What You Want To Accomplish The Next Day.

The Principles Always Work If You Work The Principles.

Remember, It's More Mentally Tiring To Think About What Has To Be Done, And All The Things That Might Go Wrong, Than It Is To Physically Do The Job.

Every Time You Take A Risk Or Move Out Of Your Comfort Zone, You Have A Great Opportunity To Learn More About Yourself And Your Capacity.

Each Day Is An Adventure In Discovering The Meaning Of Life. It Is Each Little Thing That You Do That Day - Whether It Be Spending Time With Your Friends, Running In A Cross-country Meet Or Just Simply Staring At The Crashing Ocean- That Holds The Key To Discovering The Meaning Of Life. I Would Rather Be Out Enjoying These Things Than Pondering Them. We May Never Really Discover The Meaning Of Life, But The Knowledge We Gain In Our Quest To Discover It Is Truly More Valuable.

There Is No Right Reaction. There Is Only Your Reaction.

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The Greatest Gift You Can Give Anyone Is A Gift Of Empowerment And Love.

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Self-esteem Does Not Mean Feeling Good All The Time. Self-esteem Means Loving Yourself Even When You Feel Badly...even When You Make A Mistake. It Means Loving Yourself Even When You're Depressed. It Means That You Accept Yourself Fully.

If What You Re Doing Now Was Enough To Get What You Want, You'd Already Have It.

Remember, You And You Alone Are Responsible For Maintaining Your Energy. Give Up Blaming, Complaining And Excuse Making, And Keep Taking Action In The Direction Of Your Goals - However Mundane Or Lofty They May Be.

Whatever Your Dream Is, Look Yourself In The Mirror And Declare That You Are Indeed Going To Achieve It -no Matter What The Price.

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Vague Goals Produce Vague Results

Practice Random Acts Of Kindness And Senseless Acts Of Beauty.

When You Truly Are On Purpose, The People, Resources, And Opportunities You Need Naturally Gravitate Toward You.

It Is Time To Stop Looking Outside Yourself For The Answers To Why You Haven't Created The Life And Results You Want, For It Is You Who Creates The Quality Of Life You Lead And The Results You Produce. You-no One Else! To Achieve Major Success In Life-to Achieve Those Things That Are Most Important To You-you Must Assume 100% Responsibility For Your Life. Nothing Less Will Do.

If You Really Stop Resisting Someone Or Stop Judging Them Or Stop Being Afraid Of Them Or Stop Imagining They're Going To Do Something Negative They Haven't Done Yet, It Changes The Energetic Field, It Changes The Relationship, And That Person - Not Always, But Often - Will Shift Their Behavior Because Of What You've Done.

If You Want Something New In Your Life, You Have To Make Space For It. I Mean That Psychologically As Well As Physically. Take A Look At Your Closet. If You Have The Kind Of Closet Where You Can't Fit Another Thing In There, That Might Be The Reason You Don't Have More New Clothes. If You Want A New Man In Your Life, You've Got To Let Go Of The One Who Stopped Dating You Five Years Ago. In Other Words, You Need To Complete The Past In Order For The Present To Show Up More Fully.

One Of The Things I Tell People In My Seminars Is To Hang Out With Positive, Nurturing People. You Become Like Who You Hang Out With.

Most Of Life Is On-the-job Training. Some Of The Most Important Things Can Only Be Learned In The Process Of Doing Them. You Do Something And You Get Feedback - About What Works And What Doesn't. If You Don't Do Anything For Fear Of Doing It Wrong, Poorly, Or Badly, You Never Get Any Feedback, And Therefore You Never Get To Improve.

Mother Teresa Was A Hero Of Mine For A Long Time. I Just Like The Way She Took On The World From A Very Humble Place. She Has A Great Quote. When She Was Leaving Her Monestary To Start Sisters Of Charity, She Had Two Pennies. She Was Asked By A Head Priest What She Could Possibly Do With Two Pennies. She Said, 'nothing. But With Two Pennies And God, I Can Do Anything'.

Most Of Us Avoid Telling The Truth Because It's Uncomfortable. We're Afraid Of The Consequences-making Others Feel Uncomfortable, Hurting Their Feelings Or Risking Their Anger. And Yet, When We Don't Tell The Truth, And Others Don't Tell Us The Truth, We Can't Deal With Matters From A Basis In Reality.

To Be 'on Purpose' Means You're Doing What You Love To Do, Doing What You're Good At, And Accomplishing What's Important To You.

Doing What You Love

The Meaning Of Self-esteem Is To Feel Lovable And Capable. As Parents, We Must Love Our Children Unconditionally And Give Them A Sense Of Being Nurtured. That's The Lovable Part. Then, We Must Provide Structure - Rules, Boundaries, Daily Or Weekly Household Tasks That Give Them A Sense They Are Making A Contribution. That's What Helps Kids Grow Up Feeling Capable.

I Believe That People Make Their Own Luck By Great Preparation And Good Strategy.

Use The Power Of Your Conscious & Subconscious Mind To Create A Vibrational Match For The Abundance You Desire And Deserve.

Law Of Attraction

When Your Dreams Include Service To Others - Accomplishing Something That Contributes To Others - It Also Accelerates The Accomplishment Of That Goal. People Want To Be Part Of Something That Contributes And Makes A Difference.

Since I Learned The Secret And Started Applying It To My Life, My Life Has Truly Become Magical, I Think The Kind Of Life That Everybody Dreams Of And I Live On A Day To Day Basis.

Law Of Attraction

Write Your Goals Down In Detail And Read Your List Of Goals Every Day. Some Goals May Entail A List Of Shorter Goals. Losing A Lot Of Weight, For Example, Should Include Mini-goals, Such As 10-pound Milestones. This Will Keep Your Subconscious Mind Focused On What You Want Step By Step.

If You Want Something Different, You Are Going To Have To Do Something Different.

As For Real Chicken Soup, I Have It Once Or Twice A Week.

Don't Waste Your Life Believing You Can't.

I Used To Define Success As Being Able To Produce Any Result You Wanted, Whether It Was A Relationship, Weight-loss, Being A Millionaire, Impacting The Culture, Changing Society, Whatever It Might Be, It Might Be Homelessness, Whatever, But Lately I've Realized That Success Is "fulfilling Your Soul's Purpose."

Never Quit. My Book, Chicken Soup For The Soul, Was Turned Down By 33 Publishers. It's Since Sold Millions Of Copies.

Decide What You Want. Believe You Can Have It. Believe You Deserve It And Believe It’s Possible For You. And Then Close Your Eyes And Every Day For Several Minutes, And Visualize Having What You Already Want, Feeling The Feelings Of Already Having It. Come Out Of That And Focus On What You’re Grateful For Already, And Really Enjoy It. Then Go Into Your Day And Release It To The Universe And Trust That The Universe Will Figure Out How To Manifest It. “jack Canfield

Now, When Anything 'bad' Happens, I Remember That Everything That Ever Happens To Me Has Within It The Seeds Of Something Better. I Look For The Upside Rather Than The Downside. I Ask Myself, 'where's The Greater Benefit In This Event?'

If You Want To Find Greater Happiness And Fulfillment In Your Life, You Must Begin To Understand And Live In Harmony With The Law Of Attraction.

Law Of Attraction

Negative Feelings Are Like Weeds. If You Don't Fully Extract Them (i.e. Pull Out The Roots), They Will Come Back.

If You Are Not Moving Closer To What You Want In Sales (or In Life), You Probably Aren't Doing Enough Asking.

Almost Everything We'll Ever Do In Life That Is Really Powerful, That Really Produces A Result In Our Lives, That Quantum-leaps Us To A New Level... Requires Us To Do Something Uncomfortable.

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