Someone Has Said, “a Friend Is A Person Who Is Willing To Take Me The Way I Am.” Accepting This As One Definition Of The Word, May I Quickly Suggest That We Are Something Less Than A Real Friend If We Leave A Person The Same Way We Find Him.

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Undoubtedly Our Heavenly Father Tires Of Expressions Of Love In Words Only. He Has Made It Clear Through His Prophets And His Word That His Ways Are Ways Of Commitment, And Not Conversation. He Prefers Performance Over Lip Service. We Show Our True Love For Him In Proportion To Our Keeping His Words.

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Life

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A Friend Is A Possession We Earn, Not A Gift. ....the Lord Has Declared That Those Who Serve Him And Keep His Commandments Are Called His Servants. After They Have Been Tested And Tried And Are Found Faithful And True In All Things, They Are Called No Longer Servants, But Friends. His Friends Are The Ones He Will Take Into His Kingdom And With Whom He Will Associate In An Eternal Inheritance.

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Encouragement

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Proper Communication Will Always Be A Main Ingredient For Building Family Solidarity And Permanence.

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He Who Invites Us To Follow Will Always Be Out In Front Of Us With His Spirit And Influence Setting The Pace. He Has Charted And Marked The Course, Opened The Gates, And Shown The Way. He Has Invited Us To Come Unto Him, And The Best Time To Enjoy His Companionship Is Straightway. We Can Best Get On The Course And Stay On The Course By Doing As Jesus Did-make A Total Commitment To Do The Will Of His Father.

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Ugly Reports And Conversations Are Always Available To Those Who Would Promote The Sordid And Sensational. None Of Us Are Yet Perfect. We Each Have Failings That Aren't Terribly Difficult To Detect Especially If That Is The Aim.

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Set Your Goals-without Goals You Cannot Measure Your Progress. But Don’t Become Frustrated Because There Are No Obvious Victories. Remind Yourself That Striving Can Be More Important Than Arriving.

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A Friend In The True Sense Is Not A Person Who Passively Nods Approval Of Our Conduct Or Ignores Improper Behavior. A Friend Is A Person Who Cares.

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I Recommend You Come To Know Your Father In Heaven. Come To Love Him. Always Remember That He Loves You And Will Give You Guidance And Support If You Will But Give Him The Chance. Include Him In Your Decision Making. Include Him In Your Heartaches And Heartbreaks. Include Him When You Take Inventory Of Your Personal Worth.

Father

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Heartache

The Gospel Is One Of Harmony, Unity, And Agreement. It Must Be Presented In Love, And With Glad Tidings, By Those Who Are Calm.

Agreement

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Often Our Self-esteem Is Bruised By Criticism.

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Groups

Judgment

If He Could Have His Way, Satan Would Distract Us From Our Heritage. He Would Have Us Become Involved In A Million And One Things In This Life-probably None Of Which Is Very Important In The Long Run-to Keep Us From Concentrating On The Things That Are Really Important, Particularly The Reality That We Are God's Children. He Would Like Us To Forget About Home And Family Values. He'd Like To Keep Us So Busy With Comparatively Insignificant Things That We Don't Have Time To Make The Effort To Understand Where We Came From, Whose Children We Are, And How Glorious Our Ultimate Homecoming Can Be!

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We Invite All To Serve The Savior And Walk In His Paths Straightway. There Is An Urgency For All Of Us Who Have This Knowledge Of His Divinity To Act Upon It Without Hesitation Or Delay. The Time Is Now.

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It Is A Happy Day When We Come To Know That With God's Help, Nothing Is Impossible For Us.

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Some Think The Only Way To Get Even, To Get Attention Or Advantage, Or To Win Is To Bash People. This Kind Of Behavior Is Never Appropriate. Oftentimes Character And Reputation And Almost Always Self-esteem Are Destroyed Under The Hammer Of This Vicious Practice.

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A Man Must Rise By His Own Efforts And Walk By Faith.

Men

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Missionary

Being Of Good Cheer Makes It Possible For Us To Turn All Of Our Sunsets Into Sunrises.

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Sunrise

Do Not Allow Yourselves To Be Made To Feel Inadequate Or Frustrated Because You Cannot Do Everything Others Seem To Be Accomplishing. Only You And Your Father In Heaven Know Your Needs, Strengths, And Desires. Around This Knowledge Your Personal Course Must Be Charted And Your Choices Made.

Father

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Heaven

The Family As An Institution Today Is Beset On All Sides. Conflicts Within The Family Are Critical And Often Damaging. Contention Puts Heavy Strain On Stability, Strength, Peace, And Unity In The Home. There Is Certainly Not Time For Contention In Building A Strong Family.

Strong

Home

Unity

Everything Is Given By God. All Talent, Creativity, Ability, Insight, And Strength Comes From Him. In Our Own Strength We Can Do Nothing.

Strength

Creativity

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Mean

Practice

Pleasure Usually Takes The Form Of Me And Now; Joy Is Us And Always.

Joy

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In Times Of Hurt And Discouragement, It May Be Consoling For All Of Us To Recall That No One Can Do Anything Permanently To Us That Will Last For Eternity. Only We Ourselves Can Affect Our Eternal Progression.

Courage

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May

Being On Time To Appointments And Meetings Is A Phase Of Self-discipline And An Evidence Of Self-respect. Punctuality Is A Courteous Compliment The Intelligent Person Pays To His Associates.

Intelligent

Self

Discipline

A Diet Of Violence Or Pornography Dulls The Senses, And Future Exposures Need To Be Rougher And More Extreme. Soon The Person Is Desensitized And Is Unable To React In A Sensitive, Caring, Responsible Manner, Especially To Those In His Own Home And Family. Good People Can Become Infested With This Material And It Can Have Terrifying, Destructive Consequences.

Home

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If We Could Look Into Each Other’s Hearts And Understand The Unique Challenges Each Of Us Faces, I Think We Would Treat Each Other Much More Gently, With More Love, Patience, Tolerance, And Care.

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Lying

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Over The Years I Have Learned That When I Need Answers To Deal With Crises, People, And Issues, I Must Go To God. God Will Help Us In Everything We Do If We Stay In Tune And If We Will Call On Him. We Must Each Plan Our Future With Him In Our Homes, Our Families, And Our Relationships With Others. If We Make Him Our Senior Partner, Our Lives Can Be Successful.

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Perhaps The Greatest Charity Comes When We Are Kind To Each Other, When We Don’t Judge Or Categorize Someone Else, When We Simply Give Each Other The Benefit Of The Doubt Or Remain Quiet. Charity Is Accepting Someone’s Differences, Weaknesses, And Shortcomings; Having Patience With Someone Who Has Let Us Down; Or Resisting The Impulse To Become Offended When Someone Doesn’t Handle Something The Way We Might Have Hoped. Charity Is Refusing To Take Advantage Of Another’s Weakness And Being Willing To Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt Us. Charity Is Expecting The Best Of Each Other

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Listening Is More Than Being Quiet. Listening Is Much More Than Silence. Listening Requires Undivided Attention. The Time To Listen Is When Someone Needs To Be Heard. The Time To Deal With A Person With A Problem Is When He Has The Problem. The Time To Listen Is The Time When Our Interest And Love Are Vital To The One Who Seeks Our Ear, Our Heart, Our Help, And Our Empathy.

Heart

Silence

Empathy

I Challenge Youth To Cooperate With Parents Who Are Concerned About Your Reading And Your Viewing. Be Concerned Yourself About What You Take Into Your Mind. Young People, You Would Never Eat A Meal Of Spoiled Or Contaminated Food If You Could Help It, Would You? Select Your Reading And Viewing Carefully And In Good Taste.

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As Adults, If Our Top Priorities Are Constantly Directed Toward The Acquisition Of More And Better Worldly Goods, It Will Not Take Long To Increase Our Love In Those Directions. The Purchase Of A Larger House Or A Nicer Car Or A More Expensive Boat May Cause Us To Sacrifice Our Resources And Develop An Unwise Love For These Symbols Of Success And Pleasure. We Learn To Love That Which We Serve, And We Serve That Which We Love.

Sacrifice

Car

Long

God Grant To All Of Us The Power And Strength To Be People Of Integrity, And The Insight And Wisdom To Avoid Being Led Into The Snares Of The Dishonest.

Honesty

Integrity

People

Where You Have Been Is Not Nearly As Important As Where You Are And Where You're Going.

Important

Where You Are

Has Beens

How Comfortable Some Of Us Become As We Nestle In The Web Of Procrastination. It Is A False Haven Of Rest For Those Who Are Content To Live Without Purpose, Commitment, Or Self-discipline.

Procrastination

Commitment

Self

We Should Teach, Particularly Ourselves, That Nobody Is A Nobody. We Are Someone, And With God's Help We Can Accomplish All Things.

Self Esteem

Helping

Should

Certainly One Of Our God-given Privileges Is The Right To Choose What Our Attitude Will Be In Any Given Set Of Circumstances. We Can Let The Events That Surround Us Determine Our Actions-or We Can Personally Take Charge And Rule Our Lives, Using As Guidelines The Principles Of Pure Religion. Pure Religion Is Learning The Gospel Of Jesus Christ And Then Putting It Into Action. Nothing Will Ever Be Of Real Benefit To Us Until It Is Incorporated Into Our Own Lives.

Jesus

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Real

Difficulties Can Be A Valuable Tool In Our Pursuit Of Perfection. Adversity Need Have No Necessary Connection With Failure.

Adversity

Perfection

Connections

One Who Practices Pure Religion Soon Discovers It Is More Rewarding To Lift A Man Up Than To Hold Him Down.

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Lifts

Resentment And Anger Are Not Good For The Soul. They Are Foul Things.

Soul

Resentment

Foul

True Happiness Is Not Made In Getting Something. True Happiness Is Becoming Something. This Can Be Done By Being Committed To Lofty Goals. We Cannot Become Something Without Commitment.

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Commitment

Goal

We Live In A Complex World. There Are Many Forces Calling Out, 'love Me.' A Sure Way To Set Our Guidelines For That Which We Choose To Serve And Learn To Love Is To Follow The Admonition Of Joshua: 'as For Me And My House, We Will Serve The Lord.

Love Is

House

Calling

Young People Are Going To Go To Someone, Somewhere. And We Had Better See That That 'someone' Is Us When The Opportunity Is Ours, For There Will Come A Time When We Will Wish They Would Come, And Do We Know But That The Interruption We Now Impatiently Put Off May Be The Most Important Thing We Could Be Doing At This Particular Time?

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Opportunity

People

Greatness Is Best Measured By How Well An Individual Responds To The Happenings In Life That Appear To Be Totally Unfair, Unreasonable, And Undeserved.

Adversity

Greatness

Individual

There Is A Great Need Today For All Mankind To Heed The Plea To Cease To Find Fault One With Another. Some Of Us Are So Accustomed To Wearing Faultfinding Spectacles That We Cannot See Past Them. We Need To Open Our Eyes And Ears And Look For The Good And The Blessings Around Us.

Eye

Blessing

Past

God Knows The Feelings In Every Human Heart. He Can Soften Sorrow And Lead When There Seems To Be No Light. Prayer Can Give Guidance And Confidence. It Reminds Us That No One Need Be Alone In This World. If All Else Fails, Remember, God And One Other Person Can Be A Family.

Prayer

Failure

Heart

Peace Is A Blessing That Comes To Those Who Trust In God. It Is Established Through Individual Righteousness. True Personal Peace Comes About Through Eternal Vigilance And Constant Righteous Efforts.

Blessing

Effort

Trust In God

Good Cheer Is A State Of Mind Or Mood That Promotes Happiness Or Joy... With God’s Help, Good Cheer Permits Us To Rise Above The Depressing Present Or Difficult Circumstances. It Is A Process Of Positive Reassurance And Reinforcement. It Is Sunshine When Clouds Block The Light.

Depressing

Cheer

Block

How Damaging Is A Habit That Permits Faultfinding, Character Assassination, And The Sharing Of Malicious Rumors! Gossip And Caustic Comments Often Create Chains Of Contention.

Character

Gossip

Rumor

One Of The Great Tragedies Of Life, It Seems To Me, Is When A Person Classifies Himself As Someone Who Has No Talents Or Gifts. When, In Disgust Or Discouragement, We Allow Ourselves To Reach Depressive Levels Of Despair Because Of Our Demeaning Self-appraisal, It Is A Sad Day For Us And A Sad Day In The Eyes Of God. For Us To Conclude That We Have No Gifts When We Judge Ourselves By Stature, Intelligence, Grade-point Average, Wealth, Power, Position, Or External Appearance Is Not Only Unfair But Unreasonable.

Eye

Self

Average

If You Have Self-respect, You Will Take Satisfaction In Being Well Groomed And Will Not Allow Yourself To Perform Shabbily. You Will Continue To Work Toward High Standards And Goals To Serve Others, To Continue And To Practice Self-discipline. You Will Not Compromise Your Standards Or Beliefs.

Self

Practice

Discipline

Peace-not Passion, Not Personal Possessions, Not Personal Accomplishments Nor Happiness-is One Of The Greatest Blessings A Man Can Receive.

Passion

Blessing

Men

A Willingness To Vocalize Feelings. How Important It Is To Be Willing To Voice One's Thoughts And Feelings. Yes, How Important It Is To Be Able To Converse On The Level Of Each Family Member. Too Often We Are Inclined To Let Family Members Assume How We Feel Toward Them. Often Wrong Conclusions Are Reached. Very Often We Could Have Performed Better Had We Known How Family Members Felt About Us And What They Expected.

Love

Voice

Feelings

A Quality Person Is Someone With Integrity. To Be Worthy Of The Highest Trust Is A Noble Attribute And Compliment. You Will Need To Maintain Confidences. Certainly It Is Greater To Be Trusted Than Loved. Truly Happy Persons Will Always Be Totally Honest In Their Dealings With Their Fellowman.

Integrity

Compliments You

Quality

The Direction In Which We Are Moving Is More Important Than Where We Are At The Moment. Goal Setting Should Cause Us To Stretch As We Make Our Way.

Moving

Goal

Important

As Children Of God We Are Somebody. He Will Build Us, Mold Us, And Magnify Us If We Will But Hold Our Heads Up, Our Arms Out, And Walk With Him. What A Great Blessing To Be Created In His Image And Know Of Our True Potential In And Through Him! What A Great Blessing To Know That In His Strength We Can Do All Things!

Strength

Children

Blessing

God Has Given Each Of Us One Or More Special Talents....it Is Up To Each Of Us To Search For And Build Upon The Gifts Which God Has Given.

Special

Gifts And Talents

Given

A Willingness To Practice Patience. Patience In Communication Is That Certain Ingredient Of Conduct We Hope Others Will Exhibit Toward Us When We Fail To Measure Up. Our Own Patience Is Developed When We Are Patient With Others.

Communication

Practice

Listening

The World Is Filled With Too Many Of Us Who Are Inclined To Indicate Our Love With An Announcement Or Declaration. True Love Is A Process. True Love Requires Personal Action. Love Must Be Continuing To Be Real. Love Takes Time.

Real

Love Is

World

Leave People Better Than You Found Them.

Nursing

People

Forgiving Heart

Sometimes When Family Members Least Deserve Love, They Need It Most. Love Is Not Appropriately Expressed In Threats, Accusations, Expressions Of Disappointment, Or Retaliation. Real Love Takes Time, Patience, Help, And Continuing Performances.

Disappointment

Real

Love Is

Victories In Life Come Through Our Ability To Work Around And Over The Obstacles That Cross Our Path. We Grow Stronger As We Climb Our Own Mountains.

Life

Motivational

Victory

We Often Equate Charity With Visiting The Sick, Taking In Casseroles To Those In Need, Or Sharing Our Excess With Those Who Are Less Fortunate. But Really, True Charity Is Much, Much More. Real Charity Is Not Something You Give Away; It Is Something That You Acquire And Make A Part Of Yourself. And When The Virtue Of Charity Becomes Implanted In Your Heart, You Are Never The Same Again.

Real

Heart

Giving

Commitment Is A Word That Cannot Stand Alone. We Must Always Ask, "committed To What?" . . . . Let Us Be Committed To . . . Using Jesus Christ As Our Master Teacher.

Teacher

Jesus

Commitment

None Of Us Need One More Person Bashing Or Pointing Out Where We Have Failed Or Fallen Short. Most Of Us Are Already Well Aware Of The Areas In Which We Are Weak. What Each Of Us Does Need Is Family, Friends, Employers, And Brothers And Sisters Who Support Us, Who Have The Patience To Teach Us, Who Believe In Us, And Who Believe We’re Trying To Do The Best We Can, In Spite Of Our Weaknesses. What Ever Happened To Giving Each Other The Benefit Of The Doubt? What Ever Happened To Hoping That Another Person Would Succeed Or Achieve? What Ever Happened To Rooting For Each Other?

Brother

Believe

Giving

Wise Is The Man Who Says What Needs To Be Said, But Not All That Could Be Said.

Wise

Men

Needs

Once Upon Hearing A Friend's Bashing Comment I Said, "did You Reach That Conclusion On Your Own, Or Did It Come Through Prayer?"

Friendship

Prayer

Hearing

Understanding Quotes: Their Essence and Application

Quotes, or quotations, are powerful tools in communication, encapsulating ideas, emotions, and wisdom in concise expressions. They serve various purposes across different contexts, from academic writing to everyday conversation.

1. Defining Quotes

A quote is a repetition of someone else's statement or thoughts. It can be a direct replication of words spoken or written by another individual, often used to support arguments, provide evidence, or convey profound insights.

2. The Importance of Quotes

2.1. Enhancing Credibility

Incorporating quotes from authoritative sources can bolster the credibility of your work. By referencing experts or primary sources, you demonstrate thorough research and a solid foundation for your arguments.

2.2. Providing Evidence

Quotes serve as concrete evidence to support claims. In academic and professional writing, they validate points made, offering readers a basis to trust the information presented.

2.3. Conveying Emotions and Perspectives

Quotes can encapsulate emotions and perspectives succinctly. They allow writers to express complex feelings or viewpoints through the words of others, often more eloquently than paraphrasing.

3. Types of Quotes

3.1. Direct Quotes

Direct quotes involve copying the exact words from a source, enclosed in quotation marks. They are used when the original wording is significant or particularly well-expressed.

3.2. Indirect Quotes (Paraphrasing)

Indirect quotes restate the original message in your own words. While not enclosed in quotation marks, they still require proper attribution to the original source.

3.3. Block Quotes

Block quotes are lengthy direct quotations, formatted as a separate block of text. They are typically used for quotes exceeding a certain length, varying by citation style. For instance, in APA style, quotes longer than 40 words are formatted as block quotes.

4. Proper Usage of Quotes

4.1. Contextual Relevance

Ensure that the quote you choose is relevant to the topic and adds value to your content. Avoid inserting quotes solely for decorative purposes.

4.2. Integration into Your Writing

Seamlessly integrate quotes into your writing. Introduce them appropriately and follow up with analysis or commentary to connect them to your main points.

4.3. Attribution and Citation

Always attribute quotes to their original authors and provide proper citations according to the required style guide (APA, MLA, Chicago, etc.).

5. Common Mistakes to Avoid

5.1. Overusing Quotes

Relying too heavily on quotes can overshadow your voice. Use them sparingly to support your arguments, not replace them.

5.2. Lack of Analysis

Presenting a quote without analysis or explanation can leave readers questioning its relevance. Always follow up with your interpretation or discussion.

5.3. Misquoting or Taking Out of Context

Ensure that quotes are accurate and not taken out of context, as this can mislead readers and undermine your credibility.

6. Quotes in Different Contexts

6.1. Academic Writing

In academic writing, quotes are used to support arguments, provide evidence, and engage with existing literature. Proper citation is crucial to avoid plagiarism.

6.2. Journalism

Journalists use quotes to provide firsthand accounts, add authenticity, and present multiple perspectives within a story.

6.3. Literature and Creative Writing

In literature, quotes can be used to convey character voices, themes, and stylistic elements. They enrich narratives and provide depth to storytelling.

7. Punctuation and Formatting

Understanding the correct punctuation and formatting of quotes is essential:

Quotation Marks: Always enclose direct quotes within quotation marks.

Punctuation Placement: In American English, periods and commas are placed inside quotation marks, while colons and semicolons are placed outside.

Block Quotes: For longer quotes, format them as block quotes without quotation marks, and indent the entire block.

8. Ethical Considerations

Ethical use of quotes involves accurate representation, proper attribution, and respect for intellectual property. Misuse can lead to plagiarism, which carries serious academic and professional consequences.

9. Tools for Managing Quotes

Utilize tools like citation generators and plagiarism checkers to manage quotes effectively. These tools help ensure proper formatting and originality in your writing.

Conclusion

Quotes are invaluable in enriching content, providing evidence, and conveying complex ideas succinctly. When used appropriately, they enhance the quality and credibility of your writing. Always ensure relevance, proper integration, and ethical usage to maximize their impact.

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