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Some People Have Bigger Egos Than Others. You Have To Take A Lot Of Abuse, And Take It In And Not Respond, Because You Don't Want Conflicts On The Movie, You Don't Want To Start Screaming At People Even When They Treat You - Even When They're Not Behaving Properly, Because You Want Them To Do Their Job, And Keep On Doing It.

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Some People Have Bigger

Julie Delpy

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Some People Have Bigger Egos Than Others. You Have To Take A Lot Of Abuse, And Take It In And Not Respond, Because You Don't Want Conflicts On The Movie, You Don't Want To Start Screaming At People Even When They Treat You - Even When They're Not Behaving Properly, Because You Want Them To Do Their Job, And Keep On Doing It.

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