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So We Strive For Perfection In The Areas In Which We Can Control, And That Isn't Necessarily What Provides Contentment And Joy For Ourselves And, More Importantly, For Our Children.

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Sarah Jessica Parker

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So We Strive For Perfection In The Areas In Which We Can Control, And That Isn't Necessarily What Provides Contentment And Joy For Ourselves And, More Importantly, For Our Children.

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