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Parents Try The Best They Can. They Want The Best For You. But A Lot Of Their Stuff Is Just Their Own. If You Can Pull Yourself Away From It And Not Always Feel Like They're Attacking You, Then It's Easier To Deal With.

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Parents Try The Best

Jessica Alba

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Parents Try The Best They Can. They Want The Best For You. But A Lot Of Their Stuff Is Just Their Own. If You Can Pull Yourself Away From It And Not Always Feel Like They're Attacking You, Then It's Easier To Deal With.

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