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My Therapist Says That I Choose Women That I Couldn't Possibly Succeed In A Relationship With Because I Really Want To Be Alone. Which Sounds Complicated And Convoluted To Me, But I Don't Know. Maybe She's Right. There's A Part Of Me That Wants That.

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My Therapist Says That

Steve Earle

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My Therapist Says That I Choose Women That I Couldn't Possibly Succeed In A Relationship With Because I Really Want To Be Alone. Which Sounds Complicated And Convoluted To Me, But I Don't Know. Maybe She's Right. There's A Part Of Me That Wants That.

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