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Marriage Is A Reflection Of Your Life In General: How You Treat People, How You Argue, How Secure You Are In Your Own Thoughts. How Vehemently Do You Argue Your Point Of View? With What Disdain Do You View The Other's Point Of View?

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Marriage Is A Reflection

William Shatner

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Marriage Is A Reflection Of Your Life In General: How You Treat People, How You Argue, How Secure You Are In Your Own Thoughts. How Vehemently Do You Argue Your Point Of View? With What Disdain Do You View The Other's Point Of View?

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