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Just When You Think You've Got Your Kids Figured Out, They Change On You. For Somebody Who's Controlling, You Can't Control It. Of Course, I Don't Think I'm Controlling, But That's What I've Been Told!

-Michelle Pfeiffer

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Just When You Think

Michelle Pfeiffer

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Just When You Think You've Got Your Kids Figured Out, They Change On You. For Somebody Who's Controlling, You Can't Control It. Of Course, I Don't Think I'm Controlling, But That's What I've Been Told!

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