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It's Healthy To Admit You're Not Ok. 'it's Ok Not To Be Ok' It's Brave. But Don't Let It Win. Be Sad. Have Your Moment, Your Day Or Week. Then Do Something About It And Be Happy. For Yourself.

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It's Healthy To Admit

Jessie J

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It's Healthy To Admit You're Not Ok. 'it's Ok Not To Be Ok' It's Brave. But Don't Let It Win. Be Sad. Have Your Moment, Your Day Or Week. Then Do Something About It And Be Happy. For Yourself.

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