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It Is A Lot Easier To Prove That You Don't Love Someone Than It Is To Prove That You Do, But One Of The Best 'proofs' I Know Is The Desire To Devote Time To The Person With No Expectation Of Any Sort Of Compensation, Including Gratitude, In Return.

-Marilyn Vos Savant

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Marilyn Vos Savant

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It Is A Lot Easier To Prove That You Don't Love Someone Than It Is To Prove That You Do, But One Of The Best 'proofs' I Know Is The Desire To Devote Time To The Person With No Expectation Of Any Sort Of Compensation, Including Gratitude, In Return.

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