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If You're Feeling Really Sad, There Is Only One Reason: It's Because You're Deleting All The Reasons You Could Be Feeling Good. And If You're Feeling Good, It's Because You're Deleting All The Bad Things You Could Be Focusing On.

-Tony Robbins

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Tony Robbins

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If You're Feeling Really Sad, There Is Only One Reason: It's Because You're Deleting All The Reasons You Could Be Feeling Good. And If You're Feeling Good, It's Because You're Deleting All The Bad Things You Could Be Focusing On.

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The Path Of Least Resistance Will Never Make You Proud.

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