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I Think The Most Important Key To Quality Communication And Interaction Is Developing An Interest In The Person You`re Talking With. Most Women Know The Secret To A Quality Conversation Is To Ask Quality Questions And Have A Sincere Interest In Hearing The Answers. In Fact, The Best Communicators Very Often Say The Least. It`s Not The Extrovert Who Dominates The Conversation That A Client Feels Most Connected With, But Rather The Individual Who Shows A Real And Sincere Interest In Knowing About The Life Of The Person They`re Talking With.

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I Think The Most Important Key To Quality Communication And Interaction Is Developing An Interest In The Person You`re Talking With. Most Women Know The Secret To A Quality Conversation Is To Ask Quality Questions And Have A Sincere Interest In Hearing The Answers. In Fact, The Best Communicators Very Often Say The Least. It`s Not The Extrovert Who Dominates The Conversation That A Client Feels Most Connected With, But Rather The Individual Who Shows A Real And Sincere Interest In Knowing About The Life Of The Person They`re Talking With.

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A Life Of Fulfillment Is One In Which We Put Urgency In Its Place And Remember That The Ultimate Target Is To Spend Our Lives Doing The Things We Believe Are Most Important To Us.

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People Are Irrational. What I Want To Do Is Let's Take The Irrational Aspects Out Of It And Let's Just Break This Down. And You And I, Let's Go And See If We Can't Master This Thing, A Few Steps At A Time Without Giving Up Your Day Job, Without Having To Give Up Your Whole Life.

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What's The Ultimate Price I'll Pay If I Don't Stop This Indulgence Now? By Asking Questions Like This, They'll Associate Pain To Overeating, And Their Behavior Will Change Immediately.

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Stay Committed To Your Decisions, But Stay Flexible In Your Approach.

That's Basically What I Have People Do, I Have Them Become Aware. Once You Set A Goal, Once You Become Aware Of Something, It Becomes Part Of Your Consciousness.

My Definition Of Success Is To Live Your Life In A Way That Causes You To Feel A Ton Of Pleasure And Very Little Pain - And Because Of Your Lifestyle, Have The People Around You Feel A Lot More Pleasure Than They Do Pain.

It's Not About The Resources You Have Available. It's About The Resourcefulness You Have Within You.

If You Do What You've Always Done, You'll Get What You've Always Gotten.

We Don't Get Our Shoulds, We Get Our Musts.

Often We Are Caught In A Mental Trap Of Seeing Enormously Successful People And Thinking They Are Where They Are Because They Have Some Special Gift. Yet A Closer Look Shows That The Greatest Gift That Extraordinarily Successful People Have Over The Average Person Is Their Ability To Get Themselves To Take Action.

Life Is Nothing But A Mirror Of Your Consistent Thoughts.

You Don't Lack Resources. You Lack Resourcefulness .

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Success Leaves Clues, Proximity Is Power. Love Your Family, Choose Your Peers.

My Teacher Jim Rohn Taught Me A Simple Principle: Every Day, Stand Guard At The Door Of Your Mind, And You Alone Decide What Thoughts And Beliefs You Let Into Your Life. For They Will Shape Whether You Feel Rich Or Poor, Cursed Or Blessed.

The Art Of Fulfillment Is The Ability To Experience Not Only The Thrill Of The Chase, But Also The Magic Of The Moment, The Unbridled Joy Of Feeling Truly Alive.

I Don't Have To Work Another Day Of My Life, Thank God, But I'm In A Place Where I Probably Work As Hard Or Harder Today Than I Ever Have, But I Do It Because I Want To, Not Because I Have To. What Is The Difference Between Work And Play? I Think The Difference Is Purpose. When Your Vocation Becomes Your Vacation, The Old Quote, You Know That's When You Made It.

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I Think Spirituality Is A Part Of Everything. It Doesn't Need To Be Separated Out From Everything Else.

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Don't Be Afraid Of New Ideas. Be Afraid Of Old Ideas. They Keep You Where You Are And Stop You From Growing And Moving Forward. Concentrate On Where You Want To Go, Not On What You Fear.

Success Is Cutting Off All Of Your Options For Failure.

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It's Your Unlimited Power To Care And To Love That Can Make The Biggest Difference In The Quality Of Your Life.

Creating Change - The First Step To Creating Any Change Is Deciding What You Do Want So That You Have Something To Move Toward.

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The Difference Between Must & Should Is The Life You Want And The Life You Have.

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My Whole Life Is Driven By Love. It Always Has Been. It's Never Been Driven By Material Things - Which Are Just Benefits Of Doing Something I Loved.

The Truth Is That We Can Learn To Condition Our Minds, Bodies, And Emotions To Link Pain Or Pleasure To Whatever We Choose. By Changing What We Link Pain And Pleasure To, We Will Instantly Change Our Behaviors.

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If You Can't, You Must. If You Must, You Can. Most People Fail In Life Because They Major In Minor Things. Quality Questions Create A Quality Life. Successful People Ask Better Questions, And As A Result, They Get Better Answers. It Is In Your Moments Of Decision That Your Destiny Is Shaped.

We Want To Avoid Pain And Have Pleasure, So If Our Early Attempts To Achieve Our Dreams Fail, We Want To Avoid The Pain Of Future Failure And Rejection, So We Stop Trying And Write It Off With A Broadbrush, "i'm Just Not Driven Enough, Not Well Educated Enough, Not Attractive Enough, Not Smart Enough."

Life Isn't About Getting More. It's About Becoming More.

Any Idiot Can Point Out A Problem .... A Leader Is Willing To Do Something About It! Leaders Solve Problems!

If You Want To Take The Island, Then Burn Your Boats. With Absolute Commitment Come The Insights That Create Real Victory.

The Past Doesn't Equal The Future. All Great Leaders, All People Who Have Achieved In Any Area Of Life, Know The Power Of Continuously Pursuing Their Vision, Even If All The Details Of How To Achieve It Aren't Yet Available

Problems Are God's Resistance To Create Spiritual Muscles.

It's Not What's Happening To You Now Or What Has Happened In Your Past That Determines Who You Become. Rather, It's Your Decisions About What To Focus On, What Things Mean To You, And What You're Going To Do About Them That Will Determine Your Ultimate Destiny.

You Are Not What You Eat, You Are What You Digest And Assimilate.

I Don't Think I Have Any Regrets, But I Can Tell You What I Learned From Mistakes Or Failures. I've Had Plenty Of Those. I Just Don't Believe In Regret, And My Economic World Is Not What I Would Ever Have Imagined; I'm Financially Free.

Don't Even Wait Until You've Lost A Pound. The Minute You Can Push The Plate Away With Food Still On It, Give Yourself A Pat On The Back.

Remember: We All Get What We Tolerate. So Stop Tolerating Excuses Within Yourself, Limiting Beliefs Of The Past, Or Half-assed Or Fearful States.

When You Know What's Most Important To You, Making A Decision Is Quite Simple. Most People, Though, Are Unclear About What's Most Important In Their Lives, And Thus Decision Making Becomes A Form Of Internal Torture.

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Don't Get Roped Into Talking About Something That You Don't Really Have Passion For, And Don't Get Roped Into Something You Don't Have Expertise In. Why Should Somebody Listen To You? If You're Going To Take Somebody's Time, You Better Deliver.

Cultivate Curiosity. If You Really Want To Grow In Your Lifetime, Learn To Be As Inquisitive As A Child. Curious People Are Never Bored, And For Them Life Becomes An Unending Study Of Joy.

The 2 Master Skills Of Life Are: The Science Of Achievement And The Art Of Fulfillment.

The Power Of Reading A Great Book Is That You Start Thinking Like The Author. For Those Magical Moments While You Are Immersed In The Forests Of Arden, You Are William Shakespeare; While You Are Shipwrecked On Treasure Island, You Are Robert Louis Stevenson; While You Are Communing With Nature At Walden, You Are Henry David Thoreau. You Start To Think Like They Think, Feel Like They Feel, And Use Imagination As They Would. Their References Become Your Own, And You Carry These With You Long After You've Turned The Last Page.

What Are You Going To Focus On, That's What Affects Everybody's Life. If You Focus On What You Can't Control, You're A Little Crazy Inside, Angry And Depressed. If You Focus Most Of The Time On What You Don't Have Instead Of What You Do Have, You're Going To Be Extremely Unhappy.

If You're Going To Solve A Weight-loss Problem - Or Smoking Problem For That Matter - You Must Address Both The Psychological And Physiological.

What I Really Like Is Changing A Life, Helping Someone Change A Business, Change A Family. In The Beginning, It Was Because I Was Willing To Only Be Paid For A Result. I Wasn't A Therapist; There Were No Such Thing As Coaches Back Then. You Had To Be A Therapist And It Had To Be Paid For By Somebody, And I Saw What Therapists Did And I Was Honestly Disturbed By It, Because I See People In Therapy For Five Years And I Was, Like, "this Is Absurd."

You've Achieved Cheerfulness The Day You Realize That No Matter What's Happening Around You, Being Anything Other Than Cheerful Will Not Make It Better.

Never Laugh At Anyone's Dream. People Who Don't Have Dreams Don't Have Much.

Have You Ever Said, 'i Can't Do That! I'm Just Not Like That!'? If You've Ever Used This Phrase, You've Hit The Boundary Of How You've Defined Yourself In The Past, And It's Affecting The Quality Of Your Present-day Life. Ask Yourself, 'where Did These Beliefs About Who I Am Come From, And How Old Are They?' Maybe It's Time To Update Your Identity.

The Ability To Connect And Influence People, That's The Job Of A Leader. And We're All Leaders At Some Level.

There's Always A Way - If You're Committed.

Most People Achieve Their Goals And Are Like, "is This All There Is?" We Are Supposed To Keep Growing So We Have Something To Get. What We Get Never Makes Us Happy. You Play Yourself When You Forget That.

It's The Moments Of Our Life That Shape Us.

If I’m Committed, There Is Always A Way.

When You Focus On Serving, There Is No Fear In You.

In Fact If You're A Mother Or A Father, You're Filled With Oxytocin When You Have A Child. It Makes You Love The Baby, Even Though They Look Like A Lizard .you'll Think It's The Beautiful Thing In The World.

There Are No Real Successes Without Rejection. The More Rejection You Get, The Better You Are, The More You've Learned, The Closer You Are To Your Outcome... If You Can Handle Rejection, You'll Learn To Get Everything You Want.

Probably The Most Pervasive False Belief Most Of Us Harbor Is The Fallacy That Only Some Superhuman Act Would Have The Power To Turn Our Problems Around. Nothing Could Be Further From The Truth. Life Is Cumulative. Whatever Results We're Experiencing In Our Lives Are The Accumulation Of A Host Of Small Decisions We've Made As Individuals, As A Family, As A Community, As A Society, And As A Species.

'why Me?' Rarely Produces A Positive Result, While 'how Can I Use This?' Usually Leads Us In The Direction Of Turning Our Difficulties Into A Driving Force To Make Ourselves And The World Better.

The Only People Without Problems Are Those In Cemeteries. It Is Not What Happens To Us That Separates Failures From Successes. It Is How We Perceive And What We Do About What Happens That Makes The Difference.

At Any Moment In Time, Our Reality Is Based On Whatever We Focus On.

The Secret To A Fulfilled Life Is Not Only To Do Well But Also To Do Good.

Put Yourself In A State Of Mind Where You Say To Yourself

Using The Power Of Decision Gives You The Capacity To Get Past Any Excuse To Change Any And Every Part Of Your Life In An Instant.

It's Your Decisions, Not Your Conditions, Which Shape Your Life.

Nothing In Life Has Any Meaning Except The Meaning You Give It.

For Many People, Food Is A Source Of Comfort, Connection, And Control.

Focus On Executing To Give Maximum Value To Your Customers. That Means Learning Everything From Financing To Producing To Marketing.

Everything Happens For A Reason And A Purpose, And It Serves You.

Everything Happens For A Reason

I'll Say - I Have Four Kids! I Married A Woman When I Was 24 Years Old. She Was 13 Years My Senior. She Had Been Married Twice Before. I Adopted Them. I Was 24 And Had A 17-year-old Son Instantly, An 11-year-old Daughter, A 5-year-old, And A Child On The Way. So I Had To Learn How To Become A Parent Very Quickly.

People Who Say, "i Don't Know What To Do," Usually Aren't Inspired Enough To Make It Happen.

The Most Important Thing You Can Do To Achieve Your Goals Is To Make Sure That As Soon As You Set Them You Immediately Begin To Create Momentum.

Whatever People Do, They Do For A Reason And They Think That It Meets Their Needs....by Their Perception.

We Are Defined By The Stories We Tell Ourselves.

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Because The Challenges Will Continue To Show Up In Life, But If You Have The Inner Strength - Whether That Be Your Faith, Your Determination Or Your Incredible Love For Self, For God And For Others - Then I Think You'll Have The Capacity To Live A Life That's Extremely Fulfilled.

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You Want To Be A Hero? Learn To Create Certainty In The Face Of Fear.

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