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If I Have Learned Anything In My Long Life It Is To Be Grateful For Every Occasion When I Followed My Sympathies And Avoided My Antipathies.

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If I Have Learned Anything In My Long Life It Is To Be Grateful For Every Occasion When I Followed My Sympathies And Avoided My Antipathies.

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When One Commits One's Self To An Airborne Craft And The Door Is Fastened Against Earth And Home, There Is No Escape Even By Running Away. The Result Is A Strange Sense Of Peace - Desperate, Perhaps, But Peace.

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Introversion, At Least If Extreme, Is A Sign Of Mental And Spiritual Immaturity.

A Woman's Mind Is Not An Instrument Apart From Her Other Being. She Does Not Separate Herself As Man Does, Now Flesh, Now Mind, Now Heart. She Is There As One, A Unity Complete And Unified.

To Serve Is Beautiful, But Only If It Is Done With Joy And A Whole Heart And A Free Mind.

All Things Are Possible Until They Are Proved Impossible - And Even The Impossible May Only Be So, As Of Now.

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You Cannot Make Yourself Feel Something You Do Not Feel, But You Can Make Yourself Do Right In Spite Of Your Feelings.

Emotions Feelings

In Our Changing World Nothing Changes More Than Geography.

It Is Natural Anywhere That People Like Their Own Kind, But It Is Not Necessarily Natural That Their Fondness For Their Own Kind Should Lead Them To The Subjection Of Whole Groups Of Other People Not Like Them.

The Main Barrier Between East And West Today Is That The White Man Is Not Willing To Give Up His Superiority And The Colored Man Is No Longer Willing To Endure His Inferiority.

Love Cannot Be Forced, Love Cannot Be Coaxed And Teased. It Comes Out Of Heaven, Unasked And Unsought.

On This Earth, Though Far And Near, Without Love, There's Only Fear.

It Is Better To Learn Early Of The Inevitable Depths, For Then Sorrow And Death Can Take Their Proper Place In Life, And One Is Not Afraid.

I Don't Wait For Moods. You Accomplish Nothing If You Do That. Your Mind Must Know It Has Got To Get Down To Work.

Believing In Gods Always Causes Confusion.

If There Is No Other Life, Then This One Has Been Enough To Make It Worth Being Born Myself...a Human Being.

The Mind That Doggedly Insists On Prejudice Often Has Not Intelligence Enough To Change.

The Older A People Grows, The More It Absorbs Its Own Landscape And Builds To It.

To Know How To Do Something Well Is To Enjoy It.

The Test Of A Civilization Is In The Way That It Cares For Its Helpless Members

To Eat Bread Without Hope Is Still Slowly To Starve To Death.

The Only Real Danger To Our Country Is From Within, That We Forget Our Own Power To Be What We Want To Be.

Doing And Being Are Very Closely Tied Together, And Unless You Are Doing What You Secretly Want To Do, You Aren't Able To Be The Sort Of Person You Want To Be.

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One Faces The Future With One's Past.

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