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I Was Always Listening To My Father More Than Anyone. I Was Always Afraid Of My Father More Than Anyone. But There's A Moment In Time Where Other Men In Your Life Can Have A Huge Impact.

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I Was Always Listening

Kevin Costner

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I Was Always Listening To My Father More Than Anyone. I Was Always Afraid Of My Father More Than Anyone. But There's A Moment In Time Where Other Men In Your Life Can Have A Huge Impact.

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Here's The Thing - The Accent Is Cool. It's Like A Girl With Big Breasts - They Get Your Attention First.

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American History

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