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I Think When Someone Blindly Projects And It's Showing Up In The Form Of Envy Or Hate - And I Actually Think They're Synonymous - That's When I Feel The Most Afraid And Disconnected And Vulnerable. Like Whenever I Don't Feel Safe In My Own Hands, In Terms Of My Not Being Tender Or Merciful With Myself, Or When We're Treating Each Other That Way.

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Alanis Morissette

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I Think When Someone Blindly Projects And It's Showing Up In The Form Of Envy Or Hate - And I Actually Think They're Synonymous - That's When I Feel The Most Afraid And Disconnected And Vulnerable. Like Whenever I Don't Feel Safe In My Own Hands, In Terms Of My Not Being Tender Or Merciful With Myself, Or When We're Treating Each Other That Way.

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I'll Be Writing Records Until I'm Dead, Whether People Like It Or Not!

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I Sabotage Myself For Fear Of What My Bigness Could Do.

Low Self Esteem

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I'll Be Writing Songs Till I Die. There's Just No Question.

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I Think It's Irresponsible When Celebrities Imply They're Doing It All Themselves. My Son Has Aunties And Uncles Around All The Time, And My Husband Is My Hero. He's Really Full-on. I Couldn't Do It Any Other Way.

Life Has A Funny Way Of Helping You Out When You Think That Everything's Gone Wrong.

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Music Will Always Be A Part Of My Life. I Love Music And I Don't Care How Many Units I Sell.

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I Grew Up In A Very Masculine Environment. So I Was Around A Lot Of Men, My Brothers And Their Friends. There Was Just A Lot Of Guys Around.

Partnership Is The Way. Dictatorial Win-lose Is So Old-school.

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A Good Man Often Appears Gauche Simply Because He Does Not Take Advantage Of The Myriad Mean Little Chances Of Making Himself Look Stylish. Preferring Truth To Form, He Is Not Constantly At Work Upon The Facade Of His Appearance.

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I Was Born In '74, So I Missed Out On All The Great Early '60s And Early '70s.

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