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I Sort Of Look At Some Peers Of Mine And I Think, 'no, You've Got It All Wrong!' I Just Want To Tell Them All To Have Babies And Be Happy And Not Get Sucked Into That Hollywood Thing.

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I Sort Of Look At Some Peers Of Mine And I Think, 'no, You've Got It All Wrong!' I Just Want To Tell Them All To Have Babies And Be Happy And Not Get Sucked Into That Hollywood Thing.

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Looking Forward

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During The Strict Macrobiotic Chapter Of My Life, I Ate Miso Soup Every Day For Breakfast And Sometimes With Dinner As Well.

It's The Difference Between Someone Who Loves You More Than Anything In The World Giving You Criticism And Getting It From Some Bitter Stranger On The Internet. What My Dad Said To Me Was The Kind Of Criticism Where I Was Like, "oh, My God, I'm On The Wrong Track." I'm So Grateful To Him For Doing That. He Was Such A No-nonsense Guy In That Sense.

When I Had Kids I Sort Of Went Into A Hole For A Few Years And I Think When I Came Out Of That, I Started To Really Become Myself And Know What Works On Me.

When I Venture Out To Eat, I Like To Go To Places With Food That I Don't Know How To Make. So My Favorites Are Japanese And Indian. Indian Food Has So Much Layering Of Flavor, And The Dishes Go Together So Harmoniously.

I Really Wanted My Creams To Feel Luxurious And Have A Beautiful Finish, And It's Harder To Do That With Natural Ingredients.

I Am Very Passionate About Non-toxic Food And Beauty And Home.

~i Think What Surprised Me The Most About Motherhood, As Sentimental As It Sounds, Is How Much I Love My Kids. I Mean, I Just Can't Believe It. It's Like A Whole New Dimension In Emotion That I've Never Experienced.~

I'm Able To Be A Normal Mom For The Most Part. I'm In [clothing Store] Brandy Melville Like All The Other Moms.

I Think The Most Important Beauty Lesson I've Learned From My Mom Is To Be Happy In What You Do.

My Father, He Was Like The Rock, The Guy You Went To With Every Problem.

I Do 45 Minutes Of Cardio Five Days A Week, Because I Like To Eat. I Also Try For 45 Minutes Of Muscular Structure Work, Which Is Toning, Realigning And Lengthening. If I'm Prepping For Something Or I've Been Eating A Lot Of Pie, I Do Two Hours A Day, Six Days A Week For Two Weeks.

Spain Is So Different From The United States. It Seemed To Have A History, And The Buildings Are Years And Years And Years Old. Here In The United States An Old Building Is About 17 (years Old), And Over There It's From 500 B.c., It's Incredible.

Could I Use Some Butter And Cheese And Eggs In My Cooking Without Going Down Some Kind Of Hippie Shame Spiral? Yes. Of Course I Could.

I Am Convinced That By Eating Biological Foods It Is Possible To Avoid A Tumor.

I Find The English Amazing How They Got Over 7/7. There Were No Multiple Memorials With People Sobbing As They Would Have Been In America. There, They Are Constantly Scaring People, But At The Same Time, People Think Nothing Of Going To See A Therapist.

I Really Like Where Tony Robbins Says That We're All Hypnotized To See Beauty This One Specific Way, And It's True.

I'm Never Going Again On Met Gala. It Was So Un-fun. It Was Boiling. It Was Too Crowded. I Did Not Enjoy It At All.

My Life Comes Down To Three Moments: The Death Of My Father, Meeting My Husband, And The Birth Of My Daughter. Everything I Did Previous To That Just Doesn't Seem To Add Up To Very Much.

I Don't Eat Four-legged Animals, But I Eat Birds, I Eat Cheese, I Eat Dessert. I Eat Everything.

If I'm Lucky, I Can Do A Facial Once A Month.

If You Carve Out What You Expect, That's How You End Up Getting Disappointed, Not Living Fully In The Present.

I'm Always Interested In What's Next Or What Is The New Kind Of Thinking.

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