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I Remember After I Dated This White Man, Nobody Said Anything But There Was A Couple Of Men In My Family That Joked After That. 'oh Yeah, We Had A Party When Y'all Broke Up. Hee Hee Hee.' And, You Know, They Laughed, And It Was Like Light And A Joke. But, You Know, That's Real. That Was Real And They Let Me Know. And, It's Almost Acceptable Within Our Culture To Be Prejudiced Toward Whites Because Of Our History. This Country Is Loaded With Racism .

-Sanaa Lathan

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I Remember After I

Sanaa Lathan

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I Remember After I Dated This White Man, Nobody Said Anything But There Was A Couple Of Men In My Family That Joked After That. 'oh Yeah, We Had A Party When Y'all Broke Up. Hee Hee Hee.' And, You Know, They Laughed, And It Was Like Light And A Joke. But, You Know, That's Real. That Was Real And They Let Me Know. And, It's Almost Acceptable Within Our Culture To Be Prejudiced Toward Whites Because Of Our History. This Country Is Loaded With Racism .

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