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I Married My Best Friend. And I Listen! Ultimately I've Been Very Fortunate - I Understand That That Doesn't Happen For Everybody But It Happened For Us And We Take It Very Seriously.

-Harry Connick, Jr.

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I Married My Best

Harry Connick, Jr.

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I Married My Best Friend. And I Listen! Ultimately I've Been Very Fortunate - I Understand That That Doesn't Happen For Everybody But It Happened For Us And We Take It Very Seriously.

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With Imagination, I'll Get There.

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