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I Married Him [chris Sarandon] My Senior Year, And After I Graduated, He Went To The Long Wharf Theatre In New Haven, And I Tagged Along And Was Doing Some Local Modeling And Commercials And Things Like That. A Woman Named Jane Oliver, Who Handled Sylvester Stallone, Saw Chris At The Theater And Asked Him To Come In And Audition. We Went In And Auditioned - He Needed Someone To Read With Him. I Read With Him, And She Said, "well, Why Don't Both Of You Come Back In The Fall."

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I Married Him [chris Sarandon] My Senior Year, And After I Graduated, He Went To The Long Wharf Theatre In New Haven, And I Tagged Along And Was Doing Some Local Modeling And Commercials And Things Like That. A Woman Named Jane Oliver, Who Handled Sylvester Stallone, Saw Chris At The Theater And Asked Him To Come In And Audition. We Went In And Auditioned - He Needed Someone To Read With Him. I Read With Him, And She Said, "well, Why Don't Both Of You Come Back In The Fall."

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Asking Questions

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