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I'm Not Used To Feeling Like I Belong Where I Am.

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I'm Not Used To Feeling Like I Belong Where I Am.

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I'm Not A Method Guy. I Can't Be Bothered To Have A Method. I Just Want To Be A Part Of A Good Movie And I Can't Stand To Be Surrounded By Morons.

At The End Of The Day, Anything I Think I'm Sacrificing I'm Just Giving Up Because It Makes Me Feel Better.

I'm A Soldier Who Didn't Know How Nasty The Battle Was Going To Be, And Now, I've Got A Purple Heart And I'm Back.

Worrying Is Like Praying For Something You Don't Want To Happen. I Have Such An Overwhelming Sense That If You're In The Right State Of Heart, The Next Right Thing Appears To You.

I Used To Be So Convinced That Happiness Was The Goal, Yet All Those Years I Was Chasing After It I Was Unhappy In The Pursuit. Maybe The Goal Really Should Be A Life That Values Honor, Duty, Good Work, Friends And Family.

I Didn't Have An Identity. It Was Manufactured. My Identity Now? It Was Written On The Wall By Ancient Forces.

I Wouldn't Want To See Anything Irreparable Happen, But I Also Like It When Seemingly Irreparable Thing Occur And Men And Women Find A Way To Move Past It.

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Give Me A Scotch, I'm Starving.

People Rise Out Of The Ashes Because, At Some Point, They Are Invested With A Belief In The Possibility Of Triumph Over Seemingly Impossible Odds.

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But I Will Agree That I Think That Things Happen With People In Relationships, That You Might Have Been Able To Enjoy Morocco, Say, If You Weren't Getting Out Of A Bad Marriage. You Know What I Mean?

I'm Coming From A Place Of Total Strength And Humility Now.

If You're Anything Like Me There Are Days When You're Convinced You Know More Than Everyone Around You. Which Is Often Confirmed By Your Interactions With People.

Im Thinking Of Buying A Monkey. Then I Think, Why Stop At One? I Don't Like Being Limited In That Way. Therefore, I'm Considering A Platton Of Monkeys, So That People Will Look At Me And See How Mellow And Well-adjusted I Am Compared To These Monkeys Throwing Feces Around.

Tofu Is The Root Of All Evil, And There's Only One Thing That Can Change A Man's Mind, And That's A Modified Uzi With An Extra-long Clip.

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Listen, Smile, Agree, Then Do Whatever You Were Going To Do Anyway.

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If I Was A Pokemon, I'll Either Be A Psyduck Or A Jigglypuff.

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I Don't Want To Be So Confident In Myself.

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I've Always Been A Fella Who Put Most Of My Eggs In One Basket And Then Take A Dump In The Basket But I Really Don't Know.

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I'm Not 40 Yet. I Wouldn't Even Bother Comparing Myself To Chaplin.

I Felt Like A Fighter Who Was Training For A Title Bout That Had Not Been Booked Yet.

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I Think I've Been Lucky, Being My Frequent Appearances On Court Tv Have Brought To Me Another Level Than Just The Actor Guy.

I've Always Felt Like Such An Outsider In This Industry. Because I'm So Insane I Guess.

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When You Have A Good Script You're Almost In More Trouble Than When You Have A Terrible Script.

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The Lesson Is That You Can Still Make Mistakes And Be Forgiven.

I'm Not Used To Studios Being Ecstatic About We Did And Saying, "please Go Do That Again."

I Had This Bad-boy-from-new York Vibe Going, Dressed Like A Punk Rocker With Spiky Hair.

Sometimes Everything You Need To Know To Be An Actor In Your Mid-forties, You Learn Before You Were 15 Years Old.

My Old Man Had A Philosophy: Peace Means Having A Bigger Stick Than The Other Guy.

I Guess The Main Thing Is, You Unconsciously Take Things For Granted, And You Think The Audience Is With You, Because You're With Yourself.

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I Loved It, It's Such Fun. I Like That People Are Seeing It And Then Talking About It. Like When I Took My Son And His Friends To See Napoleon Dynamite Last Year, We Spent The Next Six Weeks Trying To Explain It.

I Think The Goal Is To Make A Well Written Scene Seem Like It's Improvised And/or To Come Up With Things That You Find In The Room That You Couldn't Have Known Until You Get Into The Real Situation, Just Try To Improve Things As You Go Along.

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The Higher The Stakes, The Happier I Am, The Better I Will Be.

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I Saw School Of Rock, And I Was Like, Why Haven't I Worked With Richard Linklater Already? Then By The Time I Got Him I Was Like, I'm Really Pissed Off I Feel Like You Owe Me Some Retroactive Swag. He Gave Me The 10-year Anniversary "dazed And Confused" T-shirt, Which I Still Wear With Relish.

It’s Such A Floating Freak Show. You Get A Bit Older And You Start To See What’s Going On Backstage In The Collective Psyche Of This Ridiculous Industry. … Nothing Pleases Me More Than When Somebody Who Was Awe-inspired To Be Working With Me Realizes I’m Just Another Schmuck That They’re Bored Of Hanging Out With On A Set. I Love That Moment. I Like It When That Persistent Illusion Is Smashed.

I've Always Just Shown Up And Tried To Figure Out What's For Lunch And Am I Going To Get To Play Some Racquetball That Night.

I Remember When People Said, "man, That's A Powerful Scene In The Movie!" And I Was Like, "we Just Shot This Thing Before Lunch, I Don't Know, He Tears A Log Apart, I Said Some Words".

I Think That We All Do Heroic Things, But Hero Is Not A Noun, It's A Verb.

I Have A Sense Of Destiny That You Are Led To The Things You Are Supposed To Do.

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Worrying Is Like Praying For Something You Don't Want To Happen.

To Me, Friendship Means Loving Tolerance.

But I Think Kiss Kiss, Bang Bang Really Got That Thing Where, If A Movie Reads Really Funny And Then Has Some Dramatic Or Violent Or Sinister Stuff In It, You Can't Forget That Primarily It Has To Be Even Funnier Than You Read It Or That Other Stuff Doesn't Work.

Nothing Will Serve You Better Than A Strong Work Ethic. Nothing. And It's Something That You Can't Teach. You Have To Be Thrown Into It, Where You're Going To Sink Or Swim. It's Amazing How Self-correcting And How Clarifying A Good, Hard, Shitty Job Can Be. Because At The End Of The Day, Any Profession I've Seen Anybody In, When You Peer Behind The Curtains Of Oh, Wouldn't That Be A Great Job? Wow, What An Amazing Thing, A Philanthropic Endeavor! It Really Just Comes Down To It's A F**king Grind.

And Last But Not The Least

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There Is Unpanned Gold In Every Soul You Run Into, No Matter What Walk Of Life They Are From.

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Violent Ground-acquisition Games Such As Football Are In Fact A Crypto-fascist Metaphor For Nuclear War.

I Like To Be A Little More Difficult To Nail Down That That Just Inside Myself, But When Someone's Motivations, Even If They Wind Up Falling In One Side Or The Other Of The Debate, When They're Personal And Also When They're Masked By Something That Only The Audience Knows Is Really Their Motivation, That To Me Is Just What I Call Entertainment.

Job One Is Get Out Of That Cave. A Lot Of People Do Get Out But Don't Change.

I Was Kind Of Like Chasing My Tail And Trying To Do The Right Thing, And Was A Little Bit Stupid. Or Irresponsible, Which Is The Same Thing I Guess. It's Just Been Really Busy And I Had A Lot Of Great Opportunities.

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