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I Feel Like Relationships Are A Beautiful Thing, Period. Relationships Can Be Really Beautiful, They Can Be Really Hard, They Can Be Really Rewarding, Or They Can Be Bad Relationships Where It's Really Detrimental And Hurtful, But That's Life, Period.

-J. Cole

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I Feel Like Relationships

J. Cole

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I Feel Like Relationships Are A Beautiful Thing, Period. Relationships Can Be Really Beautiful, They Can Be Really Hard, They Can Be Really Rewarding, Or They Can Be Bad Relationships Where It's Really Detrimental And Hurtful, But That's Life, Period.

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Not Good Enough

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Bad Relationship

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History Repeats Itself And That's Just How It Goes.

History Repeats Itself

Repeating History

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I'm Not Gonna Be Bad At Anything, And I Want To Actually Be The Best At Anything I'm Doing. So If I'm Playing Basketball, If I'm Taking The Sats, Like, There's A Competitive Spirit Behind It. With Production, It's The Same Thing.

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