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I Don't Want To Sound Like A Self-help Book, But It Really Has Been Transformative For Me To Take A Look At My Relationships In A New Way And See My Part In Them. Everybody's Going Through That.

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Bonnie Raitt

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I Don't Want To Sound Like A Self-help Book, But It Really Has Been Transformative For Me To Take A Look At My Relationships In A New Way And See My Part In Them. Everybody's Going Through That.

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