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I Don't Really Relate To Myself As The Girl In The Magazine. Which Is Dangerous For Me, Too, Sometimes, Because I Don't Think All The Time, 'well, Look To See If People Are Following Me Home.' Sometimes I'm A Little Bit More Free Than Maybe I Should Be.

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I Don't Really Relate

Kirsten Dunst

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I Don't Really Relate To Myself As The Girl In The Magazine. Which Is Dangerous For Me, Too, Sometimes, Because I Don't Think All The Time, 'well, Look To See If People Are Following Me Home.' Sometimes I'm A Little Bit More Free Than Maybe I Should Be.

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