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I Don't Like My Men To Be Too Ornate. I Like Them To Stand Back And Let Their Women Shine, And They Should Really Wear The Pants In The Relationship.

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I Don't Like My Men To Be Too Ornate. I Like Them To Stand Back And Let Their Women Shine, And They Should Really Wear The Pants In The Relationship.

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